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john937 said:
We call 'em Queens, and there's a lot of gay people that don't like them anymore than you do.
Particularly when they effect speech mannerism's like "Miss thing!", "You go girl!".
But we'll put up with them if they give good blow jobs.
The gays that aren't butch are obvious, so you notice them.
The butch gay guy at the next workout station doesn't register a blip on your gaydar screen,
so you assume he's straight.
Most straight people believe they don't know any gay people. That's so mistaken.
This is just SO true. Straights have a stereotype of what a gay person is. The fact is that most of them aren't queens, but the regular Joe you work out next to at the gym, most people immediately assume is straight. They also assume that some guy with a string of pretty girlfriends is also straight.
Most people would laugh if I told them my ex-boyfriend is gay. He has a reputation for being such a ladies man that they wouldn't consider it possible. He's just using these women because he's so closeted. He's not even bisexual.
Most gays put the percentage of the population at 10% but even if it's a conservative 5 percent:
Each gay person has two parents and probably a brother, sister, aunt, uncle, grandfather, grandmother
That means 5%*7 relatives = 35% of the population have a close relative that is gay
not to mention coworkers, neighbors, doctors, barbers...
I'd also have to say, the acting girly is somewhat a regional thing. It's much more prevalent here in Texas than when I lived in California.
Same with drag shows, they're all over the place here in Texas. In California the only people that went to see drag shows were the tourists.
You're so right about the girly thing. Where I live camp is in. When I go to Sydney the guys are much more butch. If people are camp that is fine. I personally have no problem with it. I think others do because they feel threatened by people who don't conform to society's ideas about gender behaviour. Flexed1 pops to mind as an example. You see gays persecute eachother too - although they'll justify it as something else.
There are so many guys who play up the hyper-masculine stereotypes that they think make them "real men". But when feminists question this they get hassled for it. But when it comes to homosexuals, it is the queens, not those who criticise their campness who cop the flak.
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