TN MuscleBear
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Re: My opinion
I think you are absolutely right. The only thing I would add is possibility #4: Some gay guys are outcasts as kids...sometimes even through highschool age...some of these guys meet other gay people, become part of a group, and take on some "belonging" or "joining" characteristics of their new accepted group...like valley girls talking the same or jocks saying "Bra"....
kdmfinn said:I think there are a number of reasons why some guys "act" more gay than others.
1. They are born with more feminine characterstics. It's not something they can control. I went for speech therapy in college, so that I could talk more like a "man".
2. Once some gays come out, they tend to flaunt it. It's like a way of saying I'm out and I'm proud of it. Maybe it's a way of overcompensating for so many years of suppressing it.
3. It also could be a way of over coming insecurity with being gay. Somtimes when I'm sick of "hiding" my sexual preference, I act more gay than normal. It's like a way of saying to the straght world, I'm here and I'm ok!
That's just my opinion. We don't have to like everyone or like the way people act. All I do is try to accept people for who they are. It doesn't mean I have to like them. I just respect them.
I think you are absolutely right. The only thing I would add is possibility #4: Some gay guys are outcasts as kids...sometimes even through highschool age...some of these guys meet other gay people, become part of a group, and take on some "belonging" or "joining" characteristics of their new accepted group...like valley girls talking the same or jocks saying "Bra"....