lol .. I don't THINK i'm inbred in that scence, but being from Louisiana you never know ... I meant that you're born with a tendency to act like a girl.
No doubt that some people REALLY play up being "nelly" (that's what we call it), but take me for instance, I don't percieve that I act or talk gay, but Big Buck says he could tell I was gay just from how I talk.
pm me and I'll give you my voice mail number and tell me if you think I sound gay or not. And I was really trying to sound professional in my voice mail.
It's hard to tell since it's a recording and people usually don't sound like they do on those things. You do sound too cheery for being at work, but gay wouldn't even cross my mind from hearing that.
I left a short message so you can see if I'm gay sounding. I think I'm quite hetero, though!
I think there are a number of reasons why some guys "act" more gay than others.
1. They are born with more feminine characterstics. It's not something they can control. I went for speech therapy in college, so that I could talk more like a "man".
2. Once some gays come out, they tend to flaunt it. It's like a way of saying I'm out and I'm proud of it. Maybe it's a way of overcompensating for so many years of suppressing it.
3. It also could be a way of over coming insecurity with being gay. Somtimes when I'm sick of "hiding" my sexual preference, I act more gay than normal. It's like a way of saying to the straght world, I'm here and I'm ok!
That's just my opinion. We don't have to like everyone or like the way people act. All I do is try to accept people for who they are. It doesn't mean I have to like them. I just respect them.