Mystery number 1 solved -- the soft weight belt holds its form after drying.
Gloves in the wash -- I owned some of those washable ones once, but they fell apart. Otherwise I have traditionally just thrown them out & gotten a new pair when the current pair is beyond funkt.
Gloves are for sissys I use chalk or straps. I have never used a belt either not saying they don't have there place but I haven't seen a reason for me to use one.
I haven't used either for years. The belt is the one thing that allows me to do any heavy leg anything after my lower back problems and I decided I dont' need my hands all caloused up. My gym doesn't allow chalk, so I guess I went the sissy route.
The ole fart here, I wash my cycling gloves every ride because I snot all over them but my work out gloves-never, just toss when necessary and get a new pair. They really help pad my bony, arthritic hands, so I'll stick to the sissy stuff.