help needed for myself and my girlfriend

[ghostkiller]

my girl and i are pretty open minded about sex...she likes anal sex and told me one night about how a mans g-spot is located in the rectum...so low and behold she put her finger in my ass while we had sex...i liked it..a lil too much perhaps...she started using more than one finger and eventually toys....but now the problem is my o-ring isn't exactly the tightest muscle in the world...and quite frankly i smell rather bad because of it...
like times when i have to pass gas and i'll hold it in and it smells like i passed gas anyways...
especially when i play my drums in my rehearsal studio...
she told me about ,i believe they are keggal exercises,in order to help tighten the muscle...but it doesn't seem to be working..
do any of u ladies have and advise on how i can fix my problem??

 

[Sassy69]

Oh boy. I frankly didn't know you could "overstretch" that particular muscle. .Kegel exercises are for vaginal muscles, not sphincter.

I'm suprised you came all the way to the EF ladies board to ask this for your first post.

 

[ghostkiller]

i followed a link to this place...and since all i could find on the net were as u said ,for vaginal muscles,i thought i'd try some advise that a woman might give..
and yeah i guess iit is pretty strange for a first question one might find on this board..sorry