Have you ever dropped a relationship

[Frisky]

for no apparent reason at all?

I've been told time and time again that the closer I get to liking someone, liking to spend time with them, the further I pull away. Mostly its because i begin to get a bad feeling about pursuing it. Sometimes its just because... I have no reason at all. I've had less than a handful (2) of relationships that have penetrated my outer core and I actually gave a shit about when it ended.

I'm sure some will say, I'll end up dying a loney ol hag.. but in a way, thats a OK, with me because I have to truely believe in someone to let them fully into my life. If there is one spark of hesitation along the ride than I'm usually out of there quick.

 

[Raina]

Yes. I think sometimes people just need to be on their own and don't realize it until they get involved with someone. There's nothing wrong with wanting time to yourself.

 

[stilleto]

I get bored with someone easily, then i drop them.
they have to have a lot of depth to keep me interested.

 

[Frisky]

Yes. I think sometimes people just need to be on their own and don't realize it until they get involved with someone. There's nothing wrong with wanting time to yourself.

I've been doing this for as long as I've been dating. For the most part growing up I just avoided dating because I predicted how it would end, so why even bother.

 

[velvett]

I can loan you my expiration stamp - it's quite nice, with indigo colored ink the dates are a bitch to change, especially with a new manicure but it's fairly easy to read.

 

[Raina]

Real connections don't happen very often.

 

[Frisky]

I can loan you my expiration stamp - it's quite nice, with indigo colored ink the dates are a bitch to change, especially with a new manicure but it's fairly easy to read.

LOL

and where or where do I place the stamp

 

[SoreArms]

I get bored with someone easily, then i drop them.
they have to have a lot of depth to keep me interested.

same here, after a few rolls in the hay of course

 

[bigmann245]

well once you have been burned you dont want to touch the fire again. its completely understandible. i dont think its a matter of wanting to be alone, its the hidden fear of getting burned again. i agree you will have to completely and truely trust the person to let them in. were not young anymore and foolish to jump into any relationship that comes along. with time comes experience. sometimes we get to clouded by the fact that their may never be a perfect someone out there. the trick is finding that perfect someone that is perfect to you.

 

[velvett]

well once you have been burned you dont want to touch the fire again. its completely understandible. i dont think its a matter of wanting to be alone, its the hidden fear of getting burned again. i agree you will have to completely and truely trust the person to let them in. were not young anymore and foolish to jump into any relationship that comes along. with time comes experience.

While that is true.

Sometimes you just get over that and you really do prefer the freedom of not being attached.

sometimes we get to clouded by the fact that their may never be a perfect someone out there. the trick is finding that perfect someone that is perfect to you.

You contradicted yourself there - but I don't think you meant to.