Great 1st date, but confused,help girls

[Daddyman Can]

Ok ladies and guys I need your input,
I had a blind date last fri nite, This was the most beautiful girl I've ever laid my eyes on. We had everything in common. I'm 5'11" 220 In great shape, Shes 5'1" 115 size 2 I mean everything was incredibly perfect. I dropped $200 on dinner then we went dancing we got back to my place @3:00 in the morning. We spent the next 2 hours orally pleasing each other. same thing when we got up Sat. morning. Then I took her to her car. I talked to her briefly Sat nite and spent Sun with her at the mall shopping. Then we went back to her place and had a bottle of wine and just hung out for a couple of hours. nothing happened, I gave her 2 roses to her surprise and left. This is Thursday and I havent had a conversation with her all week. I dont understand it Ive asked and told her she could call anytime but have heard nothing. Do you guys think she'll call, should I call her, I want to so bad, but I'm not sure what to do, Its like I dont want to be without her. Man I havent felt like this in 3 years. What the fuck am I to do. HELP HELP

 

[Cindy99]

stop posting notes on the internet and call her. why did you wait this long? its your responsibility to call her. she's sitting there stewing picking apart your weekend trying to think of the bad parts to justify the fact that you haven't called and its good riddance. you may even have to send her flowers to make up 4 the fact that you haven't called her yet. CALL HER.. CALL HER... CALL HER....

 

[kamaboko]

here's a thought.....maybe she just wants a good time, on her time, with a guy she selects at that time. hey, guys have been doing this shit for years to women. you just met a hottie that spun your head. guys do get played ya know. and for god's sake don't drop $200 on a first date ever again!!!!

suggestion....
give her a call but don't sound needy. if she bites, fine. if not, walk away knowing you had a good couple of hours with her.

 

[Lestat]

Hahaha For God's sake don't drop $200 on a firt date ever again!!!


That was such a great quote... perfect advice.

I tend to be super excited about a girl when I first date... usually lasts a weekend.. or a week.. depending on whether or not she lets me hit it right away.. then im done with it. She could be fine, fun, everything.. but for some reason I just lose interest.

The same thing could have happened to her...

BUT dude I don't want to discourage you, you can have her if you want, you just have to play your cards right.. Give her a call man, guys are still expected to call more then girls.. if you ask her to do something and she blows you off, then start worrying...

Actually fuck it, don't worry, just say ok.. and move on.. if she wants you she will come around, they always do.

Brian

 

[lonewulf]

You desperatly need to read my thread "I'm gonna help all you nice guys out" Run a search on it and you will learn a lot about how women work, what to do about this chick, and others in your future. Dont listen to the ladies on the board about this subject, because although they dont know it, they dont know what they want, they know what they THINK they want. Read my thread and find out what they really NEED.You will probably need to reread that. Boy that sure was a lot of knows and wants, I'm exhausted.-WULF

 

[Mad_maxx18]

. and for god's sake don't drop $200 on a first date ever again!!!!

LOL

 

[Icon]

Bro, you mean to tell me you've NEVER called a girl back
after the 1st date before? That's what I got outta your
first post...but anyway, yeah, I agree with everyone who
posted: call her. And, good luck!

 

[Deepsquat]

Go ahead and cll her now ...always wait a day or 2 ...you don't want to sound too eager...you will scare her off!
My wife and I had a fantastic first date(no sex) I just found her to be really nice...she will tell you that she fell in love with me that night! But you know what? I didn't call her for 3 days! I didn't want to seem tooo eager...though it turns out it would have been OK...you never know what is going to freak a girl out!
Also ...don't ever drop $200 again...your damn lucky you got layed... try not to spend more then $50

 

[SDRaver]

Dropping 200 bones on a 1st date is like being that poor sap buying lap dances all night from the same stripper and thinking she likes you. It's just wrong is what I mean.
Don't turn this into a waiting game. cuz when you play games someone gets PLAYED LOL.

 

[firstenrgy]

Don't you dare call her! I hope I'm not too late. First mistake you made is seeing the girl twice in one weekend. Remember that woman DO NOT like nice guys who wait by the phone. All that "I want to meet a nice guy" stuff is bull. If she really likes you she will call. I fear it might be too late but just wait and see. One other thing. Ask more woman out. If you ask ten woman out a week you will have two dates for the weekend and you won't be here posting about why isn't she calling me. I hope it doesn't sound like I'm flaming you because I'm not. Best of luck to you.
firstenrgy
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