Christopher X said:And don't be ashamed to ask her what she wants and to ask her if you're doing it right. Also, get her talking. Make it so she's comfortable telling you how it feels and what she wants. It's her body and she's the one who knows how it's feeling for her.
And (in my experience, anyway), if a girl says something in the heat of the moment like 'yes, yes', she means exactly that. When I say 'yes', I often mean something like, 'yes, that's good, keep going but do it faster/harder etc' - she usually means, 'keep going just as you are'. If she wants it faster or harder, she'll say so.
Excellent advice, all around!!!!
Yes! Make her comfortable to the point, she KNOWS that giving you help with what makes her feel good does NOT make you less of a good lover, but ENHANCES your skills.
Also, when she's giving you signs that it's feeling good to her, DON'T Change a thing, like he said! The pussy and clit are VERRRY fickle!!!! Get her to the point of orgasm and "start getting fancy" and you've just lost her orgasm, sport.
On a technical note, the clit often has an even 'more sensative' area within (or along) it's self. If she tells you as much, lick that area a bit more often that the rest of the band. And often, lighter is better; teasing to the point she's putting her clit to your tongue wanting it more - But, don't tease to the point you've pissed her off or angered the clit.