I can relate, the girl I'm with now doesn't give head on her own I have to push her head down there or ask. Even when she does it she doesn't put much effort into it, been with her for about 7 months and never blown my load from oral. The girl I was with before her had never given head before. She told me she hated doing it, so overtime we started messing around I pushed her head down. I even told her as she was doing it what I wanted her to do and how. Eventually she enjoyed doing it and started doing it on her own and being a hell of a lot more creative. Almost 2yrs ago we broke up, so now some other guy is getting head from her,,, and let me tell you I taut her well she learned how to give great head. As I said befor the girl I'm with now doesn't like giving head, and I feel like why bother its was a pain teaching the 1st one to and finally when she learned how to do it well and be comfortable with it we went our seprate ways.