Dude your not gonna get AIDS from fucking with a rubber. Some research seems to show that heterosexual transmission in Africa is different and easier than in the West. Apparently, African women are more poorly nurished and have suffered other infections that tend to leave the vaginal tract more susceptable to infection and also transmitting the infection.
Even without a condom your risk is low, having said that, is one good fuck worth a risk of contracting an incurable deadly disease. Completely aside from AIDS, getting a young women pregnant is definately a possibility of sex without a condom, unless she's on the pill, and how do you know.
Then there are the other STD's, let me really scare you. Syphilis and gonnareah, herpes, venereal warts, all that shit is much more easily be contracted than AIDS. People can carry syphilis and gonnareah without any visible symptoms, and it can be easily contracted by eating pussy. In some instances syphilis can very easily becomce a very deadly disease within a matter of 2 to 3 months...all before any visible symptoms appear. Withen a matter of months of contracting it, it can invade your nervous system causing permanant brain or nervous system damage.
Before you take the plunge, educate yourself, go talk to someone (school counselor, doctor, family planning clinic) who will talk straight to you. Don't let anyone give you that abstenance bull shit, without giving you the information you need to make a choice for yourself.