FELLAZ- do you know how many guys your girl has banged??? and if so....

[Binky]

Helen,
Actually I'd prefer not to be compared at all
Favorable or not..... I mean I don't really feel
any better knowing she was poorly screwed or well
screwed by her previous fling's....
I mean, Turn it around....would you feel better or
worse if I said you sucked cock worse than my
last 19 girlfriends,now would ya feel better if I said
you sucked better than those other 19....prolly not!

Just tell if I'm doing the right thing now.....here...today
in the present time..
Ya know...working all the knobs and dials right :

 

[ccie6679]

I wanted to know how many people my wife had been with, but it would not have changed my perception of her (unless the number was really high) And I told her how many people I had been with (she was somewhat repulsed but married me anyway)
Since then, I have asked about every detail and we have discussed our past in detail. If anything, it has brought us closer together.

 

[MkZk]

Yeah I know. And the doesn't really bother me.

What counts is now.

 

[bigwillster]

Wow...I haven't even met 250 people in my life. How did you keep track of all those? Do you use a pitch counter like I use when i'm keeping my pitch count in a game?

HEY DAYS OF TANTRIC. I STARTED WHEN I WAS 13 AND HAVE BEEN A SEX MANIAC SINCE. I'VE SLEPT WITH ABOUT 18 WOMEN SO FAR THIS YEAR AND PROUD TO SAY IM HIV NEG AND STD NEG. I ACTUALLY MET A CHICK LAST WEEK I MIGHT STTLE DOWN WITH.

 

[StoneColdGold]

Re: Numbers game.

The last woman I had really strong feelings had been with 9 others before I met her (which I think is a lot) was 26 at the time , and kept telling me just how much she had changed - she hadn't. SLUT

EXACTLY! AMEN! Let's put that in perspective shall we?

DICK DICK DICK DICK DICK DICK DICK DICK DICK!

That is a lot of Dick, period.


Hey MB-- I'm telling you man, stop fighting it! I remember you were all torn up when dating that girl who had been with 7 guys. Then you went on to a girl who had been with 9??? COME ON MAN!!! Just accept that it bothers you and date accordingly. You will be much happier!

 

[Milhouse]

Well I asked this girl I was "seeing" briefly in dec-jan last year this very question. She said 9 or 10 and is 26. well I know how she so I called bullshit on this and asked another question.
"Of course that doesnt include blowjobs you have given has it?"

She didn't like the question until she realized I was joking.

I think point blank like I beleive Hannibal said. What people have done before you is really none of your business and EVERYONE has skeletons in thier closet, the ones that say they dont are full of shit. It's more important to judge(not the best word) people for the actions they perform now, not something they did when you did not even know them.

That being said I dont want a fucking virgin. And for anything relationshipwise I realize now I want to be with someone who will make me wait for that special day.Just not too fucking long though.

 

[HelenSL]

Helen,
Actually I'd prefer not to be compared at all
Favorable or not..... I mean I don't really feel
any better knowing she was poorly screwed or well
screwed by her previous fling's....
I mean, Turn it around....would you feel better or
worse if I said you sucked cock worse than my
last 19 girlfriends,now would ya feel better if I said
you sucked better than those other 19....prolly not!

Just tell if I'm doing the right thing now.....here...today
in the present time..
Ya know...working all the knobs and dials right :

I know what you mean...I was being realistic that if they've been with others they probably can't help comparing...but yeah, no need to discuss it - YIKES!!!

...forget it is more like...as you said...just tell me what you want me to do...don't tell me why so-and-so was better!!!!!!!!

Really I don't think I'd care...my panic is that CURRENTLY I am the only one...that's all I really really care about...that if my spouse is not happy with me it's not because there's someone else

that has to be the worst feeling in the whole world

I can honestly say I don't think I've been in that situation THANK GOD hope I never will be either...

(I cried my eyes out over this once at least...in fear...but then I cried my eyes out on a different day, for fear what if I ever unintentionally did that to someone else...caused that fear in someone else...good job I am so - unattractive it's impossible LOL )

love
helen

 

[madbomber31]

hell, the previous girl only FUCKED one of those 7, sucked 6 other dicks though... but the difference is the previous girl did it to please guys... she felt thats what she had to do... this one has slept with guys while in a relationship... sad thing is, i have KISSED maybe 10 girls in my life... thats it! she has slept with 3 times the number of people i have... she says it wouldnt matter if i fucked 30 girls... it wouldnt??? that gives me even less respect...

i have this thought that every girl i am with should feel lucky to be with me... they should also have the high moral standard that i have.. i have not slept around (4), and never wanted to. i wanted a girl to be mine and only mine... i dont have any desire to play chicks, different pussy every night means nothing to me except that in the end i would be lonely. to know that other guys who DID NOT CARE about a girl i am with had the opportunity to spray their nut in a girl i am dating, is sick... some guy is out there thinking "dude, i was fuckin this girl and i yanked out on her face"... (NO, THIS DID NOT HAPPEN, just an example)... i dont want anyone to see me with a girl and have the privelage of saying "i fucked that chick"... it drives at me... i get the mental image of the girl being fucked, begging for more dick, asking to be fucked "harder, harder".. "deeper" "faster"... "please cum for me", "cum in me"... NO FUCKING WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i cant handle it... sick sick sick

 

[Wombat]

MadB----There isnt going to be a right answer for a guy like you until some woman tells you that she has slept with no one. But even when that girl tells you that, you will ask her how many blow jobs etc. The older you get the more the #s add up for most people. If your not married by the age of 30, you wont be asking how many people she slept with but how many kids do you have. Another thing is dont ask if you are the best fuck she has ever had. They will tell you that you are every time. Truth is you are not. Suck up your insecurity and look forward not backward.

 

[HelenSL]

hell, the previous girl only FUCKED one of those 7, sucked 6 other dicks though... but the difference is the previous girl did it to please guys... she felt thats what she had to do... this one has slept with guys while in a relationship...

yeah but it could be the same deal...she felt she had to...they encouraged her into it...just because she might have enjoyed it physically doesn't mean she wanted sex really, given a free choice...

heck even little kids 'enjoy physically' being abused by an adult, in a sense... that's why it messes them up so bad because it seems bad, it feels good...they are too young to process it...

sad thing is, i have KISSED maybe 10 girls in my life... thats it! she has slept with 3 times the number of people i have... she says it wouldnt matter if i fucked 30 girls... it wouldnt??? that gives me even less respect...

mb that's just her way of saying "let's forget about the past....please...she wants to live in the now, in this relationship...

i have this thought that every girl i am with should feel lucky to be with me...

sweetie I'm sure she feels totally lucky to be with you...have you asked her? I bet she'd say she's never loved anyone like you...you don't have to believe her but really really don't you want to if she says that? And mayn't it be true, just maybe???

turn off the tv in your head sweetheart and look at what you have in front of you...before she is just one more memory...just a thought, no offense...

love
helen