My wife and I have been together since our early college years. Were both 27 now.
Im not bragging or standing here beating my chest... but im awesome in bed. Period. I may get some comments like "How do you know youre so good, Mr Superman?!!?" ... trust me, I can tell when my partner is enjoying themselves
However my wife has brought up the idea of being with another woman quite a few times recently. Before, whenever it was brought up she would pretty much shoot it down as somethin shes never been interested in... however her interests are changing it seems. She says she wants to know what its like to hold and kiss a soft, gentle woman. Shes curious.
We havent been married very long, and prior to us being married... I would probably have been all for it. However now, its difficult picturing my wife with anyone else, woman or not. I mean, what if she found out she liked it a lot better? If she left me for a woman after everything we've been through, I would probably cut my own genetalia off and leap headfirst off the nearest building. It would crush my ego that badly, and guys egos are very sensitive things.
However if thats something she wants to try, i will do my best to be as supportive as I can on the surface. I dont want our marriage to be like jail... where we have this set of rules blah blah blah. I want us both to be happy, and be as free as possible. It would just be a difficult pill to swallow at this point.
Dont get me wrong... the idea alone arrouses the shit out of me. But its the mental and emotional repurcussions that make me extremely wary of the entire situation. I am a very jealous person and hold my wife close to me at all times. It would probably make me an emotional wreck if something like this went down.
In a somewhat controlled environment im sure I wouldnt mind if my wife fooled around with a woman to satisfy her curiousity at least.
Anyway... thats my 2 cents. If you would like to talk more about it, shoot me a pm