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Do you think cyber sex is cheating?

Do you think cyber sex is cheating?

  • Yes

    Votes: 28 50.9%
  • No

    Votes: 27 49.1%

  • Total voters
    55
I think it is......when I was with my ex....i hardly talked to guys on the puter....or whatever....just to play cards and thats as far as it got....I loved him and I didnt want to lose him....and i think cyber sex is cheating....if someone else turns u on..then it is to me
 
its what they say....he was awesome...when i was in tenn and he was at home...we passed time nicely....he got off:) thats how good
 
Having done it myself in all forms - cybersex, phonesex, webcams I feel qualified to say it's definitely cheating.
 
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Given time it also leads to other things. Over the last 8 years I have slept with three women I first had phonesex with. One of them ended up being a live-in girlfriend of 5 years.
 
There are three others who, although I no longer have any kind of flirting with, would be a virtual slam dunk score if we were to meet. I'm pretty happy with my current situation so I'm not encouraging any of them right now.
I was quite the slut in my AOL days. I was usually juggling 2-3 phonesex buddies at a time.
 
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Anytime you're actively involved in the sexual gratification of another person it's cheating.
 
Gymgurl said:
I agree 100% with ^^^Mr. sex machine


So how come you didn't vote.
 
For sure! My definition of cheating is if you make any sort of physical, emotional, or mental connection in THAT kind of way, then it's cheating.

Cyber sex often leads to other things. It's the new wave of cheating and you wouldn't believe how many people meet in person having met online initially.
 
I see 4 bold faced liars have answered this poll. Nobody can tell me that they wouldn't be livid if they came home and found their gf fingering her coochie on a webcam while IM'ing some fool. The only guy who wouldn't be pissed about that is one who wants out of the relationship already and doesn't have the balls to say it before.
 
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DT I voted no ... not I liar... I would compare it to reading erotica. I think if you meet someone in the flesh well then that is cheating. The rest is just fantacy.
Also if your not honest about it with your lover I would think of it as cheating.
 
dayna4u2nv said:
DT I voted no ... not I liar... I would compare it to reading erotica. I think if you meet someone in the flesh well then that is cheating. The rest is just fantacy.
Also if your not honest about it with your lover I would think of it as cheating.


So if you and I shacking up............... :sigh: .................................OH! sorry. anyway we're shacking up; you come home, sneak upstairs to find me having phonesex with Daisy_Girl. I'm butt naked spread-eagled and working it like a jackhammer, saying her name and everything. Dayna! HI...was talking to my Mom..just got out of the shower. How was your day? You're solid with that?
 
:p not phone sex... cyber sex and if you lied I would be pissed. I am only talking about IMing someone. Talking on the phone is more personal. Cyber is not at really as personal. I am pretty open as long as my partner is honest with me. If you lie to me that pisses me off.
 
My thing is there will always be somebody better looking down the street. Lord knows I'm no Shemar Moore either. Cybersex is kinda like a drug. For it ALWAYS lead to wanting to take it further. My current fuck buddy and I started out as internet friends, which moved to cyberflrting, then cybersex, then phonesex. Finally she had reason to be in town for a weekend and we went at it like wild dogs. Now she has a webcam which keeps us entertained until we can hook up again.
 
It is still cheating. Your jerking off to someone else other than the one that you so call love.
 
Athos said:
You only like the fact that I jerk off to thoughts of you and your hot body.

Honestly, I think that you jerk off to the young blond from minnisota you had over last weekend

If the Auto show would have lasted one more day I would have killed myself from jealousy
 
You should have given me a call

I saw her saturday after you two came back home. She was gorgeous and I would have slipped away from my husband to join in
 
Athos said:
Only to try to steal me away for yourself. I'm on to your evil plan floozie

No
she really was attractive
I told you before that I would try sex with another woman only if she was a model type and she diffinately was.
I get wet thinking about what we would have done to each other and you
 
You have wanted this from day one. But you have to come get it. How did you like the naked ones I sent you? The video is on the way
 
Athos said:
You have wanted this from day one. But you have to come get it. How did you like the naked ones I sent you? The video is on the way

I loved them
how do you think that I know how big you are?

does the video show you and the St paulie girl?

I want a copy
 
good because I want you for myself
she's no good for you anyway and I have a nicer body than that tramp
 
What's phonesex, I'm assuming it would hurt without proper lube?

How does the phone company charge for that, "Long distance" rates?
 
SoKlueles said:
athos dang it ur cheating on me already with the "floozie"

That's one thing you have to know about athos before you make that move soklueles.

I see him bring a different girl into his house every weekend.

they seem to be all much younger than him too
 
Just make sure that you make athos wrap it, soklueles

He smells clean but thats just his sexy colonge
 
absolutley not, as long as you arent tocuhing the kitty you arent cheating, ive seen some strange kitty on a cam and there is nothing wrong with it at all
 
77% No......I see all EF hotties will be on my short list.
 
I wouldn't know a thing about it.
 
I think its really lame to have cyber sex, but thats just my opinion, and it does not neccessarily extend to the individual who is performing the act. Of course it is a breach of trust, that much must be obvious.
 
Personaly,I dont see the point of it,I am more partial to wanting to stick my dick in someone rather than stroke it myself.I dont get off on someone just wanting to talk about sex,to me they are just a tease,and i avoid that.Give me a wet pussy to a computer screen and a keyboard,and leave the cybering for all the dweebs that cant go out and meat women for real
 
I'm with D on this one. How is it different then watching porn or reading xrated stories?
 
I dont think so. When i first found out about chatting and cybersex, I got into it. I mean I really got into it-webcam the whole thing. And I had a boyfriend at the time who didnt live with me. I wouldnt answer my phone,my door or anything because i was on the computer doing it. To me, it was just masterbation. To my boyfriend it was cheating. I understand he was upset-I might have been too but if he would have been giving me the attention i needed maybe cybersex wouldnt have been so appealing to me...i dont know. Anyways, he soon broke up with me after that and wasnt so into it anymore.
 
Dial_tone said:
Given time it also leads to other things. Over the last 8 years I have slept with three women I first had phonesex with. One of them ended up being a live-in girlfriend of 5 years.


LOL, don't call me. Please, never call me. :worried: Don't even type my name. Just kidding.

I'll give you some k to keep you from providing me a virutal death.

Pesonally, I don't like window shopping, and that is what this thread is about, window shopping. I'd rather do my shopping at a club/bar where I can let me fingers do the walking. Luckily, I'm married so I don't have to worry about it.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
I would compare it to reading erotica. I think if you meet someone in the flesh well then that is cheating. The rest is just fantacy.
Also if your not honest about it with your lover I would think of it as cheating.
how can getting naked in a sexual context for somebody other than ur bf/gf whether webcam, videos, whatever not be cheating?? unless its for money, then as long as ur bf/gf gets a cut its all good.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
I will admit to have done it a few times but only when I was single. I have been lucky enought to have been with boyfriends that satisfy my needs so that is why I probably never did it when I was with someone.
What are you thoughts on the matter?
It is...yet it is so much fun!
 
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