This might get moved but I don't see it as being a BTS material ... it's more discussion material.
Healother got me thinking ... funny, I sort of forgot this, my first time WAS with another virgin.
Boy did it suck.
I mean, he was my first love, literally, but damn ... you stick two virgins in bed together and what you have is ... two pitifully frustrated people fumbling around, neither one of them knows really what they're trying to do with very little insight on how to even begin to do it properly. We never did get very good at it (we did try) but in hindsight ... pitiful.
I didn't have decent sex (or get halfway decent at it) until I started hooking up with guys who were experienced and then I was like "HOLY SHIT WHERE DID YOU LEARN THAT!?! ... do it again ..."
Of course, that was about 25 years ago, there WAS no internet, VCRs had only started coming out on the market. There's more information available now. Amazing how the technology has moved but when I was 17 I had very little in the way of visuals/second hand knowledge. I learned about sex the good old fashioned way, in the backseat of my boyfriend's Monte Carlo
Healother got me thinking ... funny, I sort of forgot this, my first time WAS with another virgin.
Boy did it suck.
I mean, he was my first love, literally, but damn ... you stick two virgins in bed together and what you have is ... two pitifully frustrated people fumbling around, neither one of them knows really what they're trying to do with very little insight on how to even begin to do it properly. We never did get very good at it (we did try) but in hindsight ... pitiful.
I didn't have decent sex (or get halfway decent at it) until I started hooking up with guys who were experienced and then I was like "HOLY SHIT WHERE DID YOU LEARN THAT!?! ... do it again ..."
Of course, that was about 25 years ago, there WAS no internet, VCRs had only started coming out on the market. There's more information available now. Amazing how the technology has moved but when I was 17 I had very little in the way of visuals/second hand knowledge. I learned about sex the good old fashioned way, in the backseat of my boyfriend's Monte Carlo