cheeting question

[Dean Kuntz]

Bro, I just hope you did not tell your gf yet and wore a condom. I don't think we should punish ourselves more than is necessary. DONT TELL IT.

I hope this fucked up monogamy shit will die out in few hundred years.

 

[epinephrine munky]

Nah, monogamy rules. It takes a while to get to the point where you can really open up to your s o - this is where true intimacy is actually experienced.

So, people have been hurt/divorced/all of the above... the truth remains that there are a lot of people who will never truely experience what marraige has to offer for whatever reason.

If you haven't experienced it then don't knock it.

Peace.

 

[alexiarenee]

Dude while this is my first post here, and a little off subject for what I am really here for (getting more results out of my training). I will share something, take it for what it is worth.

If you care about this person, and do not believe she will find out (thats the double edged sword) You meet both these requirements..Do not...once again....Do not ever tell her!

I have been married for 14 years , married @ 18 & 17...well almost one year ago to date she had an affair...tried to comit suicide she felt so bad about it. And with dealing with it for a year now I can HONESTLY say I wish I never knew. there is nothing but pain...will you feel better by telling her...I doubt it..actually it will be worse.

Does my wife feel better by me knowing..I doubt this, she sees the pain in my eyes all the time.

If you have to tell her.....thats what the made death beds for

Best of luck..learn from mistakes

I have been on both ends of the story...and I have to agree with BIGBADBEN.
I wish I would have never found out about when my s/o cheated on me. What good did it do? Nothing.....just caused hurt, worry, mistrust...and from time to time I think about it and get upset.
I am sure that is the same for him, too.

 

[brickhouse]

thanx for all the posts guys, i'll have to do some seaching.

 

[Mad_maxx18]

dont tell her, it would just cause to much pain
what she doesnt know wont hurt her.

 

[Kahn]

37 talking here. Not that age matters but my age is experience in this case. That is what matters. Never confess a "sin" if it is for yourself. You don't confess to make yourself feel better if it hurts someone else. In this case(in my experience), you be the big boy and suck it up. If she's the one, she doesn't need to know how you learned the lesson. If she isn't the one, she doesn't need to be hurt by how you learned the lesson. Either way, it's your lesson, learn it and live with it. Good Luck with it, bud.

 

[Lord_Suston]

So you cheated, now what are you gonna do as someone posted earlier you could hurt her just to feel better, this is fucking selfish. Or you could go on loving her and know what you almost lost and never do that shit again. Your choice....