I'm sure I sucked at first, but over the years I've learned how to get my husband off really well. Girls just gotta pay attention to how a guy responds to what they're doing. I enjoy it and read a lot about different techniques. It's not a difficult thing to learn. If your girl isn't doing it how you like it, give her some suggestions, otherwise things won't change. When we're with a new girl I'll tell her a few things about how he likes it and what he doesn't like. It makes the experience a lot better than just guessing. A good blowjob is better than fucking, there's a lot more a girl can do with her lips, tongue, throat and hands than she can with her pussy or ass. One girl we've been with only 3 times because she lives in another state but she's a quick learner and got him off with a bj last time we were together. She's my favorite fuck buddy so far. She's also awesome at eating pussy.