that seems to work for the guys that are "gay for pay" in porn. Two 'stars' come to mind from the 80's. Rex Chandler and Jeff Stryker. Both are married to women, have kids, but in a few interviews, both have mentioned that "for $10,000 to $50,000 a film, I'll be glad to get a BJ and f*** a dude in the ass". They either had their GF off camera or str8 porn playing for them to see while they're plowing some guy. These days, with viagra, it would be easy for a str8 dude to get hard enough for some guy to give him a decent BJ. And, since they are not emotionally atrracted to the guy, I wouldn't consider them gay or bi; just horny and happy to accept big bucks for a few hours of sex on video. Committing a 'gay act' doesn't make a person gay - think of all the closeted married-to-women that are crusing the XXX video stores and parks; they are the desperate ones that are gay but cant/wont accept it within themselves.