You're not missing out. This shit has dragged on for more than a year for me and has taken years off my life. Before anyone judges me for not taking a harder line sooner, remember that you don't know all the facts. I am a soft person with a sweet and non confrontational disposition. I have dealt with it to the best of my ability, most of the time on my own. But yeah, it sucks you dry.
I'm pretty awesome, but this freak isn't obsessed with me because of that, because he barely knows me. He's obsessed with some fake fantasy he projected onto me. There's not one damn flattering thing about this shit. Not one.