Best text/call blocking app for android? (Bonus: Crazy person drama)

[wootoom]

bullshit nan! Lol

Nan says "fuck you"


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[wootoom]

Nef, I'm sorry you have to go through this. I'm about a year into a situation in the same ballpark and it will wear you down psychologically. Laws are not always great. I don't have great advice for blocking apps but ensure, in the meantime, you and your family document everything..screenshots of calls, strange numbers etc. And the less you engage the better. Sending a letter like Cindy posted is good in that it shows clearly you've asked the contact to stop (if you ever end up in court) but the lawyer should know the best advice. I've become an expert in Canadian stalking laws and eventually did have to change my number and will likely move this spring. Pm me if you ever need to talk.

Pm me if you want to talk? Stalk much? LOL


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[ceo]

I've had a couple of offers. I'm just not one at this point to accept the collateral damage of kneecap breaker ending up in jail. "He wouldn't stop texting her mean/crazy things" is a shoddy defense angle, and I don't want anyone taking that bullet for me.

I'm working toward a legal solution at this point that hurts the least amount of innocent parties. I was back in a slightly passive place with this the last time we talked about it, but shit escalated again and I am back in fight mode. I'm just trying to be smart about it.

well, if that legal stuff doesn't work out...

 

[nefertiti]

I'm the only female here who has never been stalked, guess I'm pretty forgettable

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You're not missing out. This shit has dragged on for more than a year for me and has taken years off my life. Before anyone judges me for not taking a harder line sooner, remember that you don't know all the facts. I am a soft person with a sweet and non confrontational disposition. I have dealt with it to the best of my ability, most of the time on my own. But yeah, it sucks you dry.

I'm pretty awesome, but this freak isn't obsessed with me because of that, because he barely knows me. He's obsessed with some fake fantasy he projected onto me. There's not one damn flattering thing about this shit. Not one.

 

[nefertiti]

well, if that legal stuff doesn't work out...

Shit, it might come to that. I hope not, though. I just know I'm at my limit. This shit needs to stop. Now.

 

[nefertiti]

Nef, I'm sorry you have to go through this. I'm about a year into a situation in the same ballpark and it will wear you down psychologically. Laws are not always great. I don't have great advice for blocking apps but ensure, in the meantime, you and your family document everything..screenshots of calls, strange numbers etc. And the less you engage the better. Sending a letter like Cindy posted is good in that it shows clearly you've asked the contact to stop (if you ever end up in court) but the lawyer should know the best advice. I've become an expert in Canadian stalking laws and eventually did have to change my number and will likely move this spring. Pm me if you ever need to talk.

I've got record of the most egregious stuff. I also have record of me clearly stating that his continued harassment would be met with legal consequences (that went over well. And by well, I mean not at all. He spewed walls of text about how much power his family has in the area). I'm doing my best to build a solid case. In the last 24 hours I've had to block four more numbers, but not before I saved the walls of text I got from each.

I made an error begging this person to leave me alone. It showed weakness, and he's getting a real fucking kick out of knowing that this shit is making a normal life hard for me.

 

[AFeedz]

Well hell. CW finally snapped.

WTF?

No.

 

[AFeedz]

Nef, how often is he calling/texting you?

I wouldn't go straight blocking him, like Cindy said, in a way where he knows it. When I did that to the guy who was stalking me he a. Started physically showing up places and b. his friends all over town started telling him where I was and who I was with any time they saw me. It was miserable. And that guy didn't leave me alone for years.

So I think you either go about it legally or in some way that he's too scared shitless to keep it up. Blocking him just makes him think you're still too weak to deal with him, and makes him think he can keep going.

Hope you find an app or anything that helps.

 

[nydj66]

I'm the only female here who has never been stalked, guess I'm pretty forgettable

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That's what you think.

and I like the new living room set you bought.

 

[-SD-]

That's what you think.

and I like the new living room set you bought.

did you fap?