if you have issues with a moderator then contact the head moderator on the particular forum and they will mediate the issue
that is the simplest way to deal with it. i know all the mods on both forums and nobody would lie or cheat a member under any circumstance. whatever issues you have i'm sure they will make it right. and on the flip side 99% of the members are the same way. it is an incredible brotherhood we all have.
but it sounds to me that you don't like how the gear looks. keep in mind different sources/brands use different oils so they aren't going to look the same.