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Approaching a girl that is already talking to other guy/s

parkerjones said:
Alot of times when I'm out at a bar, club, or where ever, The girl that I find attractive is already being talked to by other guys.

Do any of you approach girls if they are already being hit on / talked to. How do you do it? My thoughts are some girls may like if you approach them while their being talked to, and think you have balls. My other thoughts are some girls may think that you are rude.

The easy answer would be to wait and approach them when they are alone. But because clubs and bars are so crowded, the odds of me seeing that same girl again (and her even being alone) are fairly slim.

So guys & girls, how do you approach members of the opposite sex that are already being talked to by their respected opposite sex.

Do not, my man. You want to look like all the other dogs with their noses up one female's butt, then go right ahead. I say be different. Go talk to someone else who is not as attractive and make the other girl think. "Damn, if she could get a guy like that, then I know I can have him!."
 
Gonzosc1 said:
This is a PS to the above!!!!!!

Strongsmartsexy you are so busted!!! I own you,, anybody wanta buy him from me... he's on the dollar shelf............
Mr. high and mighty, the nobleman, the statesman.............
and the pocket protector of all good men..........
you talk down to me about women and then I find this in your profile.........

"Trophy wife?!?!?! What contest in HELL did I win?" - Frank Barone

So this is one of your fav quotes?????????? you should rethink your priorities!
And what about this little gem here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Stats:
5'10" 235lbs
Will you accept insecure email?:
no
Location:
Craving Velvett...Yummy
Interests:
Women with big boobs! Are there any other hobbies?
Occupation:
Executive

""Interests; Women with big boobs, Are there any other hobbies?""

Well isn't that speical! how many times a day do you disrespect your wife by peeping, "yes I said peeping" down other women shirts??
hmmmmmmmmm any other guy of this planet would have lost count after one..
you need help!! big time,, the fantasy land you live in only has room for one and there's a no vacancy sign on the door.......................................
sorry dude your mine!!!!!!!!


Errrr, listen toadly. My wife loves that qauote from Frank Barone. And she's the one who helped with the profile. You don't own me let alone control of your own bladder.
 
I do have to admit that the whole "trick" to getting a chick's cell phone number was pathetic. Unless a woman expressively gives me her number and asks to hear from me I won't call her. There is nothing more awkward than calling up a chick and having her ask “gonzo who?... from where? “ Fuck that, most people leave that stuff after Jr. High.

Here are some pointers.

-Women either find you attractive or they don’t.
While men might lower their standards during time of “drought”, women stay pretty consistent and are likely to hold out till they find a guy they like enough to sleep with.

-Even if you are an ugly Mofo you might be able to “grow” on them… But it won’t happen in a couple of hours at a noisy night club. You have to spend some serious time in the “friend zone” before your ugly ass gets some play from a hot bitch. She has to realize your ugly ass won’t stray because nobody else wants you. And she has to finaly grow tired of bagging handsome guys who treat them like shit cause they have too many options.

-Most of them will act a little bit “uninterested” even if they want to fuck you on the spot. They want you to at least TRY. Even if the pussy is yours when you said “hello”, she still wants to feel like you earned it. (Notice I said “a little bit uninterested” if she turns her back on you and walks away that usually a nice way of saying “piss off”)

-A girl looking for a relationship: If she is attracted to you, and interested: You can lose her in 1 second by saying something real stupid. If she likes you, and you have no game… keep your fucking mouth shut. It is better to sit in silence and appear ignorant than to open your mouth and confirm it. It is better to seem “quiet and mysterious” not “talkative and dumb”. Ok so you are a duffus and you want to go out with this gourgeous chick… Again, keep your fucking mouth shut as much as possible, be sweet, nice, caring and courtageous. She might overlook your peanut size brain for your gigantic heart.

-A girl just looking for a good time: If she is attracted to you: She does not care if your approach is corny or you don’t have 2 brain cells to make a spark. She will laugh at your stupid jokes and ignore you looking at her tits all night. She will wish you make a good enough effort of smoothing her into bed, makes her feel less guilty if it seems like you actually had to try.
WARNING: you can still fuck this up… You still have to appear Sane and never make her feel like the whole neighborhood is going to know you boned her. She needs to feel like you are a capable of having sex with her, respecting her in the morning, being nice, and staying the fuck out of her face when she wants you to. She also doesn’t want to feel like you are using her like a slut… yes deep down inside she might feel cheap for banging you dumb ass… but she needs to feel a certain level of comfort with you.
Even if she wants nothing more than dick from you, she might still call you every now and then just to “talk”, be nice, keep it light, short and friendly.
Never be a jerk or rub in her face how many other sluts you are banging. You might be too busy hitting random pussy to fit her into your rotation this week, But Never Tell Her That, tell her you are working and have too much to do, you’ll see her next week. Yes she only wants some dick and she probably knows you are fucking other chicks, but she doesn’t need to hear you tell her she is the “Monday Afternoon chick”. The name of the game is: She knows what she is, you know what she is, but never talk about it. You will keep getting some poohtang till she decides she wants something serious and leaves your handsome ass for an ugly dude with a brain and a good job.


This may not apply to most women. I have come to some of these conclusions thru anecdotal experience and nothing more.
 
Big Rick Rock said:
I do have to admit that the whole "trick" to getting a chick's cell phone number was pathetic. Unless a woman expressively gives me her number and asks to hear from me I won't call her. There is nothing more awkward than calling up a chick and having her ask “gonzo who?... from where? “ Fuck that, most people leave that stuff after Jr. High.

Here are some pointers.

-Women either find you attractive or they don’t.
While men might lower their standards during time of “drought”, women stay pretty consistent and are likely to hold out till they find a guy they like enough to sleep with.

-Even if you are an ugly Mofo you might be able to “grow” on them… But it won’t happen in a couple of hours at a noisy night club. You have to spend some serious time in the “friend zone” before your ugly ass gets some play from a hot bitch. She has to realize your ugly ass won’t stray because nobody else wants you. And she has to finaly grow tired of bagging handsome guys who treat them like shit cause they have too many options.

-Most of them will act a little bit “uninterested” even if they want to fuck you on the spot. They want you to at least TRY. Even if the pussy is yours when you said “hello”, she still wants to feel like you earned it. (Notice I said “a little bit uninterested” if she turns her back on you and walks away that usually a nice way of saying “piss off”)

-A girl looking for a relationship: If she is attracted to you, and interested: You can lose her in 1 second by saying something real stupid. If she likes you, and you have no game… keep your fucking mouth shut. It is better to sit in silence and appear ignorant than to open your mouth and confirm it. It is better to seem “quiet and mysterious” not “talkative and dumb”. Ok so you are a duffus and you want to go out with this gourgeous chick… Again, keep your fucking mouth shut as much as possible, be sweet, nice, caring and courtageous. She might overlook your peanut size brain for your gigantic heart.

-A girl just looking for a good time: If she is attracted to you: She does not care if your approach is corny or you don’t have 2 brain cells to make a spark. She will laugh at your stupid jokes and ignore you looking at her tits all night. She will wish you make a good enough effort of smoothing her into bed, makes her feel less guilty if it seems like you actually had to try.
WARNING: you can still fuck this up… You still have to appear Sane and never make her feel like the whole neighborhood is going to know you boned her. She needs to feel like you are a capable of having sex with her, respecting her in the morning, being nice, and staying the fuck out of her face when she wants you to. She also doesn’t want to feel like you are using her like a slut… yes deep down inside she might feel cheap for banging you dumb ass… but she needs to feel a certain level of comfort with you.
Even if she wants nothing more than dick from you, she might still call you every now and then just to “talk”, be nice, keep it light, short and friendly.
Never be a jerk or rub in her face how many other sluts you are banging. You might be too busy hitting random pussy to fit her into your rotation this week, But Never Tell Her That, tell her you are working and have too much to do, you’ll see her next week. Yes she only wants some dick and she probably knows you are fucking other chicks, but she doesn’t need to hear you tell her she is the “Monday Afternoon chick”. The name of the game is: She knows what she is, you know what she is, but never talk about it. You will keep getting some poohtang till she decides she wants something serious and leaves your handsome ass for an ugly dude with a brain and a good job.


This may not apply to most women. I have come to some of these conclusions thru anecdotal experience and nothing more.

WERD



BIGTIME
 
Gonzosc1 said:
This comment has the errie sound of someone that has been "owned" by many women. the domination must have been painful and you lost your manhood and it will never return. you have given up on all your manly powers and will sit in the shadows waiting for the next damnation in your life.....

ANd then again I might have a mental age greater than 11.........shit if you want her number have the balls to ask for it.
 
Man, so much hostility.

Why are guys so threatened when a woman discusses sex openly? Then we complain when they are uptight.

Back to the original question. As a general rule it isn't a cool thing to do. But sometimes there is an exceptional looking girl and you aren't sure whether they are a couple or not. Why should you ignore her if it turns out the guy is her brother? If the guy leaves for a minute, that's your break to find out.

But if not, then I start up a conversation with the guy. It could be anything depending on the situation. Even something as lame as nice jacket, who's the manufacturer. Then it's casual to ask how they know each other. A lot of times it's a guy she just met, or they're out on a first date. Watch his face when she says they're just friends.:)

Girls are sharp. She may not have scored 400 on her SAT's, but she'll know what you're doing, and give you the ok in some way (ask questions, be talkative etc) if she wants you to stay.
 
JerseyArt said:
Man, so much hostility.

Why are guys so threatened when a woman discusses sex openly? Then we complain when they are uptight.

Back to the original question. As a general rule it isn't a cool thing to do. But sometimes there is an exceptional looking girl and you aren't sure whether they are a couple or not. Why should you ignore her if it turns out the guy is her brother? If the guy leaves for a minute, that's your break to find out.

But if not, then I start up a conversation with the guy. It could be anything depending on the situation. Even something as lame as nice jacket, who's the manufacturer. Then it's casual to ask how they know each other. A lot of times it's a guy she just met, or they're out on a first date. Watch his face when she says they're just friends.:)

Girls are sharp. She may not have scored 400 on her SAT's, but she'll know what you're doing, and give you the ok in some way (ask questions, be talkative etc) if she wants you to stay.


Yup... I too have been fooled by chicks who are out with the guy cousin, makes you think he is with her but it turns out you had the green light all along.

I say just keep an eye out for a little while, if the guy is her man he should be kissing her and holding her in a certain way.... If he is not, then it is safe to assume that they are just friends or family.
 
Girl Next Door- Need advice?

-Women either find you attractive or they don’t.
While men might lower their standards during time of “drought”, women stay pretty consistent and are likely to hold out till they find a guy they like enough to sleep with.

-Even if you are an ugly Mofo you might be able to “grow” on them… But it won’t happen in a couple of hours at a noisy night club. You have to spend some serious time in the “friend zone” before your ugly ass gets some play from a hot bitch. She has to realize your ugly ass won’t stray because nobody else wants you. And she has to finaly grow tired of bagging handsome guys who treat them like shit cause they have too many options.

Not true, women will come off their standards, but its not just appearance, its also swagger, I've seen guys with six packs and big shoulders who can only get a girl at the beach, in the club they constantly get turned on. Come onto a girl with the right attitude and even nerdy guys can get some.

Also as for the friend zone, if your looking for pussy, NEVER, NEVER get into the friend zone, once in the friend zone always in the friend zone. But the friend zone is different from the friendly zone, if you talk to her a few times and make friendly conversation thats great, but you need to slip some hints that you are attracted to her, not just looking for a friend relationship. It is very hard to get out of the "Friend Zone" even for the best of players.
 
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