LOL Actually, I met him at the gym. And no, he wasn't nice - that is why he is now "the ex".
I didn't become a dancer until after I split with my ex, most amount of money for the least amount of time. I go-go danced for about 3 years - two months of that time stripping.
In the 4 years that I have been separated/divorced from their dad I have never left my kids with a sitter to socialize - PERIOD and I am extremely careful who I bring around them, be they male or female. They have only met one man - once, for an afternoon. I seriously thought we were going to be married - the dude begged me for months just for me to tell him their names. I don't even let guys see pics of them.
Really? By your mastery of the American language I would have never guessed it. Congratulations on a job well done for successfully hiding that "fact".