Bottom line is if you're hot then your scam can be cornball. We're not stupid. We know what you want and we know what we want. No player's guide neccessary.
If the face and bod is happening then we want you to succeed in perpetrating your scam but due to our need to protect our own self esteem (i.e. not feeling like we're giving it away) we still need you to work at it for a while. You understand? There is a dance that must be danced before there's any hookups.
But for me personally if I'm not down for the nasty then then I tell it straight up front. "Are you trying to hook up, cuz it's totally fine if you are?" "You are? Cool, but it aint gonna happen with me and you might want to spend your time and money elsewhere".
As for the average and maybe below average looking guys, your degree of successful scammage is going to be heavily dependent on the girl's self knowledge. If she is unsure of herself and/or unsure of what she really wants then your play IS going to be much more important.
If the face and bod is happening then we want you to succeed in perpetrating your scam but due to our need to protect our own self esteem (i.e. not feeling like we're giving it away) we still need you to work at it for a while. You understand? There is a dance that must be danced before there's any hookups.
But for me personally if I'm not down for the nasty then then I tell it straight up front. "Are you trying to hook up, cuz it's totally fine if you are?" "You are? Cool, but it aint gonna happen with me and you might want to spend your time and money elsewhere".
As for the average and maybe below average looking guys, your degree of successful scammage is going to be heavily dependent on the girl's self knowledge. If she is unsure of herself and/or unsure of what she really wants then your play IS going to be much more important.