Yup... As for grieveing... I'm still in something of shock... but I know there's nothing I can do about it. Crying isn't going to help much of anything, and least of all, it doesn't make me feel better... I know this kind of sounds a bit superficial, and like I didn't really care about her, but I did (and still do)... It, however, wasn't a hard breakup. It was actually a mutual understanding sort of thing; we talked about it, and we both decided that it just wasn't meant to be. I think that really helped the grievance thing out a lot.