You may now say "I told you so"

[chewyxrage]

Well it seems like you have a damn good attitude for just breaking up with your fiance. I couldn't handle it like that. Keep it up

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

you were going to marry a girl that didn't like to hug you?

Damn, way to save your own ass and not a minute too late....

 

[-SD-]

Im dying to know how a person gets engaged to another person without being able to hug them????

 

[artrius]

Im dying to know how a person gets engaged to another person without being able to hug them????

Good question. Its because it was a long distance relationship (due to me being in the military). We were together while I was on leave a few times, and we kept the relationship going over the phone and net while I was not there. After a while, though, we discovered this. We would hug and whatnot before, but it wasn't much and it didn't bother me that badly.

 

[artrius]

You know, I can't blame it all on her, though. It takes two to tango, right? Well, I think I was moving things too fast. Though we spent countless hours talking to each other, due to the distance, our actual physical time together was very limited... I should have realized this, but of course, I can be young and blind at times.

I was indeed pretty shocked about the whole ordeal, and pretty depressed too, but you know, there's more fish in the sea... and when you catch one that you can't love, well... I don't mean to sound cocky or arrogant, but I know I deserve more than that.

 

[seizer]

Power to you man. It takes a lot to walk away from something like that. However, with this move, I'm certain you'll find someone more appropriate for you.

 

[HiDnGoD]

ahhh I was wondering if someone would ask... well. *sigh* from her former relationship experience, she has become very much not a loving person at all. Any time I would try to even so much as hug her, she'd shy away from it. Don't get me wrong, we get along great, and I understand that there are times that people don't want to be touched, but with her it was pretty much always. Believe it or not, and call me geigh, but I happen to be a loving person when I'm in a relationship. (Yea, I'm with aap in the cuddlebitch club. Oh well. ) She could not accept that, and since love is a large part of a relationship, and its a big part of how I prefer to be (vice an ass), I decided that it would not work between us.

That's at least the gist of it.

I'm really sorry to hear that. I had a friend who was in your situation. Didn't get married, but he moved in with her. Shortly after he moved in she started to gradually pull away from the things that attracted him. Mainly sex, which would have been bearable, but then even his casual touch in passing became offensive to her. No more hugs or cuddling. She started calling him klingy, needy, infantile. It was her house, & he left with nothing. It's terrible to see what it did to him. Glad you didn't find out too late.

 

[HiDnGoD]

You know, I can't blame it all on her, though. It takes two to tango, right? Well, I think I was moving things too fast. Though we spent countless hours talking to each other, due to the distance, our actual physical time together was very limited... I should have realized this, but of course, I can be young and blind at times.
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You cannot blame that. I was in the army, got out 20 yrs ago. I met my wife in high school. WE kept going out for 2 years after I joined. Then we got married & have been married for 22 years. This was before the net. I think we'd actually been physically together for 6 or 7 months by the time we got married. She was 2 weeks out of high school.
Keep your chin up (& wet).

 

[Becoming]

nice job dude. seriously. way to nut up and do what needs to be done...

I guess you aren't too clingy after all huh?

The hugging is kind of faggy thou.... Next time you want to show affection, just slam your crank in her mouth...

I hope you got naked pics of her to post up before the breakup...

Or else you are going to have to go back there and hit that ass one more time for them...

 

[alien amp pharm]

well at least I have a date for next weekend already (and yes it is a female)

Just make sure you don't start getting attracted to her seeing eye dog.