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what is your approach to the opposite sex and does it work?
I am very direct and it works a lot of the time.
I am very direct and it works a lot of the time.
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I try to become the man of her dreams, just by talking to her! The point of eliciting values is to find out what she wants in and from a man and then turn into that man of her dreams by providing her with it. But don't be fooled, if she says she wants her man to be tall and financially secure, you're not going to the doctor to get implants for your legs or rob a bank. What she gave you were "means" values. Tall in itself does nothing for her - what matters to her is how a tall man by her side makes her feel. And this is the key - for each means value you need to find out the "ends value," which is what she really wants.
Let's take the example of a tall man. Asking her "and how does a tall man make you feel?" might reveal that it makes her feel secure and protected! Aha! That's what she really wants! She wants to feel protected and secure, not a "tall man" per se. In practice, she'll reject a tall man that doesn't make her feel protected and secure right away, whereas you, who you might not be tall at all but can make her feel secure and protected, have just elicited your way to her pants. In The Elite Player's Guide to Getting Laid , I'll show you how to elicit all her means values and explain how to project end values back to her when it's time to talk about "yourself."
Read more here:
http://www.elitefitness.com/reports/players/
Let's take the example of a tall man. Asking her "and how does a tall man make you feel?" might reveal that it makes her feel secure and protected! Aha! That's what she really wants! She wants to feel protected and secure, not a "tall man" per se. In practice, she'll reject a tall man that doesn't make her feel protected and secure right away, whereas you, who you might not be tall at all but can make her feel secure and protected, have just elicited your way to her pants. In The Elite Player's Guide to Getting Laid , I'll show you how to elicit all her means values and explain how to project end values back to her when it's time to talk about "yourself."
Read more here:
http://www.elitefitness.com/reports/players/
I'm not huge into eliciting values. To me it seems like a form of supplication -- find out what she wants and then be it. It's changing yourself to fit her reality. I'd much rather suck her into my reality. A good way to do this is by qualifying her.
Besides, all of that "ideal man" talk puts her in relationship mode. That's not where I want her to be, considering I want sex.
Besides, all of that "ideal man" talk puts her in relationship mode. That's not where I want her to be, considering I want sex.
