I drove an hour and 15 minutes twice a week for 4 years when my girlfriend went to college. Then she moved 5 hours away, and I only made the trip once a month. Everything came to a screetching halt when her new boyfriend called me up, and asked if I knew about their relationship. I, of course, was totally in the dark. So was he. She was telling him that we were broke up, and she was very good about being sneaky with him. The point is this. Just don't get too attached, because that shit never works out.