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Wow, this is a good question.....
My answer is yes, but in addition,
there are two ways to look at this:
1. It's just a bed, who gives a fuck?
and
2. A bed has some symbolic meaning to it. It is where you rest your head in an unconscious state. In a bed you are as close to death as you will ever get in life. Would you want some stranger fucking in that bed of yours?
I understand both opinions completely, but if it were a close male friend I say No 1. To be polite.
But,
I'm the type of person who has no need to sleep in anyone else's bed if it's in a private setting, let alone have sex with someone in it; so I think to myself, "Why would anyone else need to sleep or screw in mine?" There's also no reason he has to use a bed, let alone mine, if he just wants to fuck a girl. Why would they let themselves fall into a position where they had to use my bed for sex? Spare bedrooms that no one really uses can be different. Hotels are completely different obviously, since it's a public setting where everyone pays for the bed, and it doesn't belong to anyone except the hotel.
Tiger88 raises a good point about only letting only a male friend in your bed with a chick, since males are territorial by instinct over females, and letting some unfamiliar dude in your bed would be completely unacceptable just on biological priciple alone.
Here's another point; ask yourself this question:
If you had a roommate who had a friend over, would you feel uncomfortable if you came home and found that person sleeping in your bed, especially if they were of your gender? This is where men and women are slightly different as well. A guy would be less likely to kick any attractive female stranger out of his bed than a girl would be to kick an unfamiliar guy out of hers.
It's all how people perceive things, and this is how I perceive it.
My answer is yes, but in addition,
there are two ways to look at this:
1. It's just a bed, who gives a fuck?
and
2. A bed has some symbolic meaning to it. It is where you rest your head in an unconscious state. In a bed you are as close to death as you will ever get in life. Would you want some stranger fucking in that bed of yours?
I understand both opinions completely, but if it were a close male friend I say No 1. To be polite.
But,
I'm the type of person who has no need to sleep in anyone else's bed if it's in a private setting, let alone have sex with someone in it; so I think to myself, "Why would anyone else need to sleep or screw in mine?" There's also no reason he has to use a bed, let alone mine, if he just wants to fuck a girl. Why would they let themselves fall into a position where they had to use my bed for sex? Spare bedrooms that no one really uses can be different. Hotels are completely different obviously, since it's a public setting where everyone pays for the bed, and it doesn't belong to anyone except the hotel.
Tiger88 raises a good point about only letting only a male friend in your bed with a chick, since males are territorial by instinct over females, and letting some unfamiliar dude in your bed would be completely unacceptable just on biological priciple alone.
Here's another point; ask yourself this question:
If you had a roommate who had a friend over, would you feel uncomfortable if you came home and found that person sleeping in your bed, especially if they were of your gender? This is where men and women are slightly different as well. A guy would be less likely to kick any attractive female stranger out of his bed than a girl would be to kick an unfamiliar guy out of hers.
It's all how people perceive things, and this is how I perceive it.
