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Would u kick her to the curb?

jiggagold

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You get into a fight on valentines day and say you love her but not in love with her cuz the spark is gone, and u say u don't want to get married but you were mad. You try to make it work and the.next few days is good. She goes home for weekend and sees her friends and has fun and is sad she is back to real life.

Your mom let her stay at your place with no rent and hooked her up with a great job. She is distant and mean all week. You cook her dinner clean and do laundry all week bcuz u feel bad for valentines.day and want to make her happy. You even let her out of town friends stay over even though she's being a bitch to you in front of them . She gets drunk and.gets mad and says ur a piece of shit and she's moving out.

U have great sex and Sunday is like nothing happened. Monday is good and it seems like everything is back to.normal. u get home from gym and some random dude texts her good morning at 7 am. U get furious and yell and scream and.break it off. U even find out she told her mom she was texting the dude. She wants to stay with u but u leave for the spring and summer in a week.

I kick her to the curb.

3 years down the drain
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jiggagold said:
You get into a fight on valentines day and say you love her but not in love with her cuz the spark is gone, and u say u don't want to get married but you were mad. You try to make it work and the.next few days is good. She goes home for weekend and sees her friends and has fun and is sad she is back to real life.

Your mom let her stay at your place with no rent and hooked her up with a great job. She is distant and mean all week. You cook her dinner clean and do laundry all week bcuz u feel bad for valentines.day and want to make her happy. You even let her out of town friends stay over even though she's being a bitch to you in front of them . She gets drunk and.gets mad and says ur a piece of shit and she's moving out.

U have great sex and Sunday is like nothing happened. Monday is good and it seems like everything is back to.normal. u get home from gym and some random dude texts her good morning at 7 am. U get furious and yell and scream and.break it off. U even find out she told her mom she was texting the dude. She wants to stay with u but u leave for the spring and summer in a week.

I kick her to the curb.

3 years down the drain
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I think both of you are immature and neither one of you are ready for a serious relationship at this point
 
I dont know about immature. Mature folks get caught up in unhealthy relationships all the damn time.

Sounds like neither of you are really truly happy but dont want to let go because of the time you have invested in the relationship. You obviously had a reason that you told her you were not IN love and the spark had gone. So, there's proof that you're not entirely happy. She is being mean to you in front of her friends, calling you a piece of shit, and having a guy texting her, which all points to the fact that she's not entirely happy and she's seeking attention from other men.

Just based on what you have provided, sounds like things aren't headed in the right direction.
 
dump her, enjoy spring break and have some fun. after a few months if you still aren't happy without her, then maybe give it another shot. sometimes distance makes the heart grow fonder
 
None of those details matter. Who cares what you did for her, or what she did to you or who she's texting behind your back?

You said yourself you're not in love with her. Boom. Done. Nothing beyond that really matters in this case.
 
jiggagold said:
whatever fuck it its over nothing more i can do, i tried
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I'm sure the things you said on V-Day hurt her like hell. You haven't specified if you said them simply because you were mad or because you've really been feeling that way for a while.

If that's the way you feel then it's time to move on. Shitty to do it on Valentines day but often the stress of a special event like that is what causes you to blurt out what you've been afraid to say.

Now she's texting another dude which is unforgiveable when's she's living under the same roof as you.

Sounds like it's too far gone to save even if you wanted to...but you never know for sure. The only certain thing is you're going to have heartache for a while.

Settle in with it and get through one day at a time. It's not going away any time soon and any effort to get rid of it quickly only makes it worse.
 
She met said dood when she went home for the weekend and tried to justify it in her mind as a retaliation tactic from the things you said over valentines day. My advice to you is to wait until she falls asleep and punch her in the fucking nose and choke that bish out.
 
pdaddyII said:
She met said dood when she went home for the weekend and tried to justify it in her mind as a retaliation tactic from the things you said over valentines day. My advice to you is to wait until she falls asleep and punch her in the fucking nose and choke that bish out.
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and post her noods
 
the v-day stuff was the nail in the coffin.

you weren't with this chick full time though for 3 years....

right? you were solo and smashing other chicks for awhile
 
You see it as a waste of 3 years. I see it as dodging a bullet that could have taken your life.
 
3 years of research for your next relationships. You know what you want better than before dating her, good. It is never easy, it is good you are going away anyway.
 
Trust costs nothing, its earned rather quickly.
When trust is broken, there are many levels of ones ability to regain it, as well as to give it back.
This is always a much longer road to get back, than it was to get there.
The biggest piece is will, both people need to want it, and have the will to make it happen.
Its difficult to react rationally, because emotions almost always over ride logic.
This is why we swing back and forth in toxic relationships.
My thoughts will be different than yours, and yours different than someone elses.
Regardless of if you want to make it back, you should try to have a civil meeting together. Remember, there was a reason you ended up together.
Try to have lunch or something, and discuss prior to this, what the meeting is about.
Try to refrain from talking about what you think the other person should do, or what you think their faults are.
Instead, use this model: When you do/say "fill in the blank", it makes me feel "fill in the blank". Try to gain something from it, even if that is not trying to rebuild.
"Closure" is a huge thing, its a pebble in your shoe that grows to a boulder over time.
At least you may be able to each learn from this, and improve yourselves.
You dont need to always walk away with the mushroom cloud rising in the background.


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