Would u kick her to the curb?

[calveless wonder]

the v-day stuff was the nail in the coffin.

you weren't with this chick full time though for 3 years....

right? you were solo and smashing other chicks for awhile

 

[EnderJE]

You see it as a waste of 3 years. I see it as dodging a bullet that could have taken your life.

 

[lartinos]

3 years of research for your next relationships. You know what you want better than before dating her, good. It is never easy, it is good you are going away anyway.

 

[Rachel...lol]

Think long-term. You don't want drama like that your entire life. That's it. Not a good fit.

 

[jiggagold]

the v-day stuff was the nail in the coffin.

you weren't with this chick full time though for 3 years....

right? you were solo and smashing other chicks for awhile

that is correct, i can never be locked down

 

[motorcyclegiant]

Trust costs nothing, its earned rather quickly.
When trust is broken, there are many levels of ones ability to regain it, as well as to give it back.
This is always a much longer road to get back, than it was to get there.
The biggest piece is will, both people need to want it, and have the will to make it happen.
Its difficult to react rationally, because emotions almost always over ride logic.
This is why we swing back and forth in toxic relationships.
My thoughts will be different than yours, and yours different than someone elses.
Regardless of if you want to make it back, you should try to have a civil meeting together. Remember, there was a reason you ended up together.
Try to have lunch or something, and discuss prior to this, what the meeting is about.
Try to refrain from talking about what you think the other person should do, or what you think their faults are.
Instead, use this model: When you do/say "fill in the blank", it makes me feel "fill in the blank". Try to gain something from it, even if that is not trying to rebuild.
"Closure" is a huge thing, its a pebble in your shoe that grows to a boulder over time.
At least you may be able to each learn from this, and improve yourselves.
You dont need to always walk away with the mushroom cloud rising in the background.


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[canadianhitman]

You see it as a waste of 3 years. I see it as dodging a bullet that could have taken your life.

Much wisdom this post has. Embrace it, you should.

 

[digimon7068]

3 years down the drain

i ditched a fucking crazy chick and now i get to go out and date again...waaaaaah

 

[lartinos]

She sounded like trouble from that other thread anyway man..