Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below ive been with her almost 2 yeras, we are in love and plan on getting engaged. she has never cheated on me. ive never even suspected it. but this summer shes going for a week with 5 other single friends to punta cana, which is a place where people go to get drunk, party and hook up. its over 3 months away and already im freaking out thinking shes gonna go down there and hook up with someone. i dont know why i think this but i do. im insecure and jealous i admit. what else would she be doing down there? should i be worried? or am i just making myself crazy?
worried about gf going on vacation
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Dude, I think you have a right to be worried. Not saying she will, but she would be nervous if it was the other way around. My GF has never cheated on me but I would trip out if she was doing that. Just plan a trip with ya boys for the same week and that will help you keep your mind off of it. But if yall are as close as you say, you shouldnt have any probs.
pappad
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Sounds like a recipe for disaster. I wiould have a heart to heart with her and ask her to really be honest and answer the question... How would she feel if you were going with your single friends?
It's a slippery slope because, if you address your concerns she could say you don't trust her. To that you say, I don't trust drunk dudes!!!
As we all know when the booze starts to flow, the inhibitions drop and the desire to fulfill fantasies come out.
Hope all works out for ya bro!!
Or, you could get engaged just before she leaves. I fresh rock would help her stay focused!!!
It's a slippery slope because, if you address your concerns she could say you don't trust her. To that you say, I don't trust drunk dudes!!!
As we all know when the booze starts to flow, the inhibitions drop and the desire to fulfill fantasies come out.
Hope all works out for ya bro!!
Or, you could get engaged just before she leaves. I fresh rock would help her stay focused!!!
BNG
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Your insecurities are whippin yo ass!
That said I think I can see why. You need to decide before you talk with her about it where you'll draw your line.
If she admits it is to be a Bachelorette type party will you still have a problem with it?
If it is will you still want her after she gets her last cock as a single woman?
Do you have the stones to ask her for a std screening when she gets back?
Does it really matter?
What will you do?
Does she expect you to go throw the meat around before you marry?
Would she be pissed if you went wild with some Bro's in Europe?
You have to know what you think about these things first then ask for the truth. If she tells you that yes, in fact she's planning the last fuck fest of her single life then you need to thank her for being honest. But be prepared.
That said I think I can see why. You need to decide before you talk with her about it where you'll draw your line.
If she admits it is to be a Bachelorette type party will you still have a problem with it?
If it is will you still want her after she gets her last cock as a single woman?
Do you have the stones to ask her for a std screening when she gets back?
Does it really matter?
What will you do?
Does she expect you to go throw the meat around before you marry?
Would she be pissed if you went wild with some Bro's in Europe?
You have to know what you think about these things first then ask for the truth. If she tells you that yes, in fact she's planning the last fuck fest of her single life then you need to thank her for being honest. But be prepared.
ponyfitness
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How old are her and her friends? I only say that because as a general rule women who are older will simply hang out, flirt and the single ones will sleep around, but cheating mostly isn't tolerated because most of them will be in established relationships. If she's in her early 20's then it's game on for all of them and they will likely get hooked up with.
all the whey
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ponyfitness said:
exactly
I bet both them are in there early 20s.
If she is going to a place like that she is not ready to get married.
On the other hand, if she doesn't go. She still isn't ready to get married. Because, some day she will regret not doing that shit when she is younger.
Trust me. I bang women in their 30's who are slutting it up now because they were insecure and didn't know what they wanted and got married too young.
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/c...alking-kakdiesel-texting-him-shit-588458.html
all the whey
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nycdiesel said:
just don't get married.
markshark said:
Here are your options:
1- Talk to her.
2- Ignore your worries and keep telling yourself she's faithful.
3- Go with her
4- Go on a vacation somewhere else, while she's on a vacation and hook-up and forget all about it...then when you get married to her, you know she couldn't have done worse that you did
Your choice.
