worried about gf going on vacation

[markshark]

shes going with her cousin who recently just got dumped by her fiance, and also 4 other single girls. her cousin even said its "girls only" and will be "girls gone wild with no cameras".

 

[Tatyana]

shes going with her cousin who recently just got dumped by her fiance, and also 4 other single girls. her cousin even said its "girls only" and will be "girls gone wild with no cameras".

I would think after three years you would know her.

She may end up being the 'babysitter' for the girls.

I would address your insecurities.

 

[nycdiesel]

fuck that man...u have a right to be pissed and i dont blame u....if u was u id go to cancun and hook up w some college freshman or some shit....take pics, that way if she ever said she cheated on u on her trip, u could just break these pics out and throw them in her face.

 

[Inspector]

"""shes going with her cousin who recently just got dumped by her fiance, and also 4 other single girls. her cousin even said its "girls only" and will be "girls gone wild with no cameras"."""

4 other single girls? and a formerly engaged woman? Recipe for some wild times.

Ask her jokingly:
-what she plans on doing if all 5 of her friends are hooking up?
-why she would want to be a third wheel in most situations?
- what will happen when all 5 bedrooms are being f d in... will she sleep on the couch?
-why is she going to be a 'wingman'?

Ask her some serious qns:
-would she be trusting if the shoe was on the other foot? etc
-Ask her why she is taking all her sexy underwear?
-When she arrives home why has she brought back new sexy underwear?

 

[all the whey]

$100 says this broad has already cheated on him.

 

[the_alcatraz]

$100 says this broad has already cheated on him.

Care to place a "karma" bet?

 

[lottalead]

ive been with her almost 2 yeras, we are in love and plan on getting engaged. she has never cheated on me. ive never even suspected it. but this summer shes going for a week with 5 other single friends to punta cana, which is a place where people go to get drunk, party and hook up. its over 3 months away and already im freaking out thinking shes gonna go down there and hook up with someone. i dont know why i think this but i do. im insecure and jealous i admit. what else would she be doing down there? should i be worried? or am i just making myself crazy?

maybe you should let her go -------you will know if anything happened
if you love her and she loves you then its time for some trust dude

 

[markshark]

shes going with her stepdad now i found out, 2 friends and her 32 year old cousin

 

[markshark]

she said they are planning on going there to get away, lay on the beach and relax. she got mad because she let me go to british columbia with my friends and never questioned me. i always ride her home from the bar at night so she doesnt drive drunk if she goes out with her friends also even if i dont she calls me at 230 am when she gets back home from the bars to say goodnight. even when shes out with her friends and im not with her she texts me things like "i love you!" or "i miss u so much!". i even talked once to one of her best friends thats a virgin and she said that my gf would never cheat on me. i cheated on her before once which is why i think im so insecure. i cant figure out if im just being insecure and tricking myself into not trusting her because of what ive done in the past or i really dont trust her. she has honestly never given me a reason to not trust her. we speak to each other every night before bed. ive even looked through her phone and found nothing, and from what i know punta cana in july isnt exactly a big drunken spring break party. im just not sure.

 

[motiondo]

You do so much need to calm the fuck down. First of all if she is cheating, there ain't a damned thing you can do about it; except maybe have a cnversation with her. Secondly, since you have not had any problems, you are on the verge of starting some with your insecurity. You can inadvertantly cause her to start talking to other guys or jsut hanging places where she nornmally would not - if you try and control her life; and if she wants another dude, cont your blessings cause it happened sooner than later (more emotionally invested). OK so you fucked up once, don't carry thatr weight on your shoulders. admit the mistake, evaluate the stupidity of it, and vow to never let it happen again and mean it! Regardless - Times like this only require that you do things to take care of yourself - while she is off enjoying hersellf. Definitely take a vacation yourself.......you don't need to brag, or do it to make her feel insecure....What is good enough for the goose is definitely good enough for the gander. Thake a trip some where where you can pick up some gear legally, and mail it back to yourself....of go lay on a beach for a week finishing your favorite novel.....The point being, that if you are busy having a good time, you won't worry so much about the good time she might be having....and in this state - if you find out later that the scum bag cheated on you...Go fuck her Mom, or best friend. Wipe the dirt off your feet on your way OUT the door, and move on!