worried about gf going on vacation

[Porportional]

hire one of those people who try to flirt with your girl, and see if she caves in or not, caving in meaning, gives attention, or flirts back.. hell of a business thats booming

 

[simm]

^^^ I'd go with the above...Escorts would do this also..100% guarantee answer whether good or bad..

 

[Canadian_Phil]

you say you are insecure and jealous? Well, your denfinetely not in love. Don't confuse infatuation with love. If you love her, you would have absolutely no problem with her going anywhere if you truly trust her, and you don't.

 

[Hellawulf]

ive been with her almost 2 yeras, we are in love and plan on getting engaged. she has never cheated on me. ive never even suspected it. but this summer shes going for a week with 5 other single friends to punta cana, which is a place where people go to get drunk, party and hook up. its over 3 months away and already im freaking out thinking shes gonna go down there and hook up with someone. i dont know why i think this but i do. im insecure and jealous i admit. what else would she be doing down there? should i be worried? or am i just making myself crazy?

Really, I think it depends on your girl and her surroundings, her friends are going to be a huge factor in what happens, more than you would like them to be, talk to her about this, and talk to her friends, they make great cockblockers, don't be demanding though, it will cause a huge fight, just share your insecurities, but don't be a bitch, be a man, drink a beer while sharing them. You will be buzzed too . Things not to do while talking to her: cry, beg, demand, burp, fart, bring up penises (you might actually be tempted in this conversation) or periods. Hope this helps.

 

[Sodam Yat]

Follow her.

 

[Hellawulf]

How did this turn out btw???

 

[markshark]

How did this turn out btw???

it was fine...its been a year and shes taken another vacation. we are still together it was just that she was only 22yrs old and i know how her friends are...hot single girls lookin for guys, so i knew guys would be around...and she likes to get drunk, so i panicked. but apparently nothing happened, and i believe her.

 

[raze]

Are there really people out there who convince themselves that they are "in love" when they are THIS insecure?

I have spent WEEKS apart from my husband. If for ONE MOMENT I thought that he thought that I would remotely entertain the notion that I would screw around then I would kick his ass to the curb and beat myself with a baseball bat for having made such a poor decision to get into a committed relationship with him.

Geeze.

On the money.

 

[GDF]

I have a time share in Punta cana. Girls go down there to fuck cause the domincan dudes are packin. All the dudes that work at the resorts grab the girls, dance, flirt and go nuts with them. I see it every year when I go down there. My wife is dominican but was born and raised here in NY. They hook up during the day and then at night they have the clubs and the shows and everyone is drinking and partying. It might not be spring break in cancun but it is a hook up fest that is for sure. Hopefully your girl is faithful because if not she got railed by a 9" platano.

 

[bruce9241]

Yea she'll get together with another guy there. They don't consciously plan this, it just happens. They can always fall back on, "oh I didn't plan it, it just happened, I guess it was meant to be".

Girls cheat all the time. Not intentionally, but it happens. Your best course of action would be to cheat on her, too. Cheat on her now. Don't wait three months. That way when she comes back and says, "baby, I'm sorry I have something to tell you". You can be like, "don't worry about it, I nailed your sister when you were gone. And her best friend".