Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below ive been with her almost 2 yeras, we are in love and plan on getting engaged. she has never cheated on me. ive never even suspected it. but this summer shes going for a week with 5 other single friends to punta cana, which is a place where people go to get drunk, party and hook up. its over 3 months away and already im freaking out thinking shes gonna go down there and hook up with someone. i dont know why i think this but i do. im insecure and jealous i admit. what else would she be doing down there? should i be worried? or am i just making myself crazy?
worried about gf going on vacation
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Dude, I think you have a right to be worried. Not saying she will, but she would be nervous if it was the other way around. My GF has never cheated on me but I would trip out if she was doing that. Just plan a trip with ya boys for the same week and that will help you keep your mind off of it. But if yall are as close as you say, you shouldnt have any probs.
pappad
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Sounds like a recipe for disaster. I wiould have a heart to heart with her and ask her to really be honest and answer the question... How would she feel if you were going with your single friends?
It's a slippery slope because, if you address your concerns she could say you don't trust her. To that you say, I don't trust drunk dudes!!!
As we all know when the booze starts to flow, the inhibitions drop and the desire to fulfill fantasies come out.
Hope all works out for ya bro!!
Or, you could get engaged just before she leaves. I fresh rock would help her stay focused!!!
It's a slippery slope because, if you address your concerns she could say you don't trust her. To that you say, I don't trust drunk dudes!!!
As we all know when the booze starts to flow, the inhibitions drop and the desire to fulfill fantasies come out.
Hope all works out for ya bro!!
Or, you could get engaged just before she leaves. I fresh rock would help her stay focused!!!
BNG
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Your insecurities are whippin yo ass!
That said I think I can see why. You need to decide before you talk with her about it where you'll draw your line.
If she admits it is to be a Bachelorette type party will you still have a problem with it?
If it is will you still want her after she gets her last cock as a single woman?
Do you have the stones to ask her for a std screening when she gets back?
Does it really matter?
What will you do?
Does she expect you to go throw the meat around before you marry?
Would she be pissed if you went wild with some Bro's in Europe?
You have to know what you think about these things first then ask for the truth. If she tells you that yes, in fact she's planning the last fuck fest of her single life then you need to thank her for being honest. But be prepared.
That said I think I can see why. You need to decide before you talk with her about it where you'll draw your line.
If she admits it is to be a Bachelorette type party will you still have a problem with it?
If it is will you still want her after she gets her last cock as a single woman?
Do you have the stones to ask her for a std screening when she gets back?
Does it really matter?
What will you do?
Does she expect you to go throw the meat around before you marry?
Would she be pissed if you went wild with some Bro's in Europe?
You have to know what you think about these things first then ask for the truth. If she tells you that yes, in fact she's planning the last fuck fest of her single life then you need to thank her for being honest. But be prepared.
ponyfitness
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How old are her and her friends? I only say that because as a general rule women who are older will simply hang out, flirt and the single ones will sleep around, but cheating mostly isn't tolerated because most of them will be in established relationships. If she's in her early 20's then it's game on for all of them and they will likely get hooked up with.
all the whey
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ponyfitness said:
exactly
I bet both them are in there early 20s.
If she is going to a place like that she is not ready to get married.
On the other hand, if she doesn't go. She still isn't ready to get married. Because, some day she will regret not doing that shit when she is younger.
Trust me. I bang women in their 30's who are slutting it up now because they were insecure and didn't know what they wanted and got married too young.
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/c...alking-kakdiesel-texting-him-shit-588458.html
all the whey
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nycdiesel said:
just don't get married.
markshark said:
Here are your options:
1- Talk to her.
2- Ignore your worries and keep telling yourself she's faithful.
3- Go with her
4- Go on a vacation somewhere else, while she's on a vacation and hook-up and forget all about it...then when you get married to her, you know she couldn't have done worse that you did
Your choice.
fuck that man...u have a right to be pissed and i dont blame u....if u was u id go to cancun and hook up w some college freshman or some shit....take pics, that way if she ever said she cheated on u on her trip, u could just break these pics out and throw them in her face.
"""shes going with her cousin who recently just got dumped by her fiance, and also 4 other single girls. her cousin even said its "girls only" and will be "girls gone wild with no cameras"."""
4 other single girls? and a formerly engaged woman? Recipe for some wild times.
Ask her jokingly:
-what she plans on doing if all 5 of her friends are hooking up?
-why she would want to be a third wheel in most situations?
- what will happen when all 5 bedrooms are being f d in... will she sleep on the couch?
-why is she going to be a 'wingman'?
Ask her some serious qns:
-would she be trusting if the shoe was on the other foot? etc
-Ask her why she is taking all her sexy underwear?
-When she arrives home why has she brought back new sexy underwear?
4 other single girls? and a formerly engaged woman? Recipe for some wild times.
Ask her jokingly:
-what she plans on doing if all 5 of her friends are hooking up?
-why she would want to be a third wheel in most situations?
- what will happen when all 5 bedrooms are being f d in... will she sleep on the couch?
-why is she going to be a 'wingman'?
Ask her some serious qns:
-would she be trusting if the shoe was on the other foot? etc
-Ask her why she is taking all her sexy underwear?
-When she arrives home why has she brought back new sexy underwear?
all the whey
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$100 says this broad has already cheated on him.
all the whey said:
Care to place a "karma" bet?
she said they are planning on going there to get away, lay on the beach and relax. she got mad because she let me go to british columbia with my friends and never questioned me. i always ride her home from the bar at night so she doesnt drive drunk if she goes out with her friends also even if i dont she calls me at 230 am when she gets back home from the bars to say goodnight. even when shes out with her friends and im not with her she texts me things like "i love you!" or "i miss u so much!". i even talked once to one of her best friends thats a virgin and she said that my gf would never cheat on me. i cheated on her before once which is why i think im so insecure. i cant figure out if im just being insecure and tricking myself into not trusting her because of what ive done in the past or i really dont trust her. she has honestly never given me a reason to not trust her. we speak to each other every night before bed. ive even looked through her phone and found nothing, and from what i know punta cana in july isnt exactly a big drunken spring break party. im just not sure.
You do so much need to calm the fuck down. First of all if she is cheating, there ain't a damned thing you can do about it; except maybe have a cnversation with her. Secondly, since you have not had any problems, you are on the verge of starting some with your insecurity. You can inadvertantly cause her to start talking to other guys or jsut hanging places where she nornmally would not - if you try and control her life; and if she wants another dude, cont your blessings cause it happened sooner than later (more emotionally invested). OK so you fucked up once, don't carry thatr weight on your shoulders. admit the mistake, evaluate the stupidity of it, and vow to never let it happen again and mean it! Regardless - Times like this only require that you do things to take care of yourself - while she is off enjoying hersellf. Definitely take a vacation yourself.......you don't need to brag, or do it to make her feel insecure....What is good enough for the goose is definitely good enough for the gander. Thake a trip some where where you can pick up some gear legally, and mail it back to yourself....of go lay on a beach for a week finishing your favorite novel.....The point being, that if you are busy having a good time, you won't worry so much about the good time she might be having....and in this state - if you find out later that the scum bag cheated on you...Go fuck her Mom, or best friend. Wipe the dirt off your feet on your way OUT the door, and move on!
Porportional
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hire one of those people who try to flirt with your girl, and see if she caves in or not, caving in meaning, gives attention, or flirts back.. hell of a business thats booming
Canadian_Phil
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you say you are insecure and jealous? Well, your denfinetely not in love. Don't confuse infatuation with love. If you love her, you would have absolutely no problem with her going anywhere if you truly trust her, and you don't.
Hellawulf
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Really, I think it depends on your girl and her surroundings, her friends are going to be a huge factor in what happens, more than you would like them to be, talk to her about this, and talk to her friends, they make great cockblockers, don't be demanding though, it will cause a huge fight, just share your insecurities, but don't be a bitch, be a man, drink a beer while sharing them. You will be buzzed too
. Things not to do while talking to her: cry, beg, demand, burp, fart, bring up penises (you might actually be tempted in this conversation) or periods. Hope this helps.
S
Sodam Yat
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Follow her.
it was fine...its been a year and shes taken another vacation. we are still together it was just that she was only 22yrs old and i know how her friends are...hot single girls lookin for guys, so i knew guys would be around...and she likes to get drunk, so i panicked. but apparently nothing happened, and i believe her.
raze
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On the money.
I have a time share in Punta cana. Girls go down there to fuck cause the domincan dudes are packin. All the dudes that work at the resorts grab the girls, dance, flirt and go nuts with them. I see it every year when I go down there. My wife is dominican but was born and raised here in NY. They hook up during the day and then at night they have the clubs and the shows and everyone is drinking and partying. It might not be spring break in cancun but it is a hook up fest that is for sure. Hopefully your girl is faithful because if not she got railed by a 9" platano.
Yea she'll get together with another guy there. They don't consciously plan this, it just happens. They can always fall back on, "oh I didn't plan it, it just happened, I guess it was meant to be".
Girls cheat all the time. Not intentionally, but it happens. Your best course of action would be to cheat on her, too. Cheat on her now. Don't wait three months. That way when she comes back and says, "baby, I'm sorry I have something to tell you". You can be like, "don't worry about it, I nailed your sister when you were gone. And her best friend".
Girls cheat all the time. Not intentionally, but it happens. Your best course of action would be to cheat on her, too. Cheat on her now. Don't wait three months. That way when she comes back and says, "baby, I'm sorry I have something to tell you". You can be like, "don't worry about it, I nailed your sister when you were gone. And her best friend".
