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Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second date?

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superqt4u2nv said:
Pardon me I work 12 hour days and train 2-3 hours a day no time to go through 17 pages of, me me me spattered with a bit of actual topic.

Again you feel special because he is picking up the tab that is what your saying. I am saying I don't need that to happen to feel special.
Well, thanks for telling ME what I mean and how I feel without taking the time to read.

If you don't like my me me me threads, why post on them? How about you just go attack someone else.
 
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heatherrae said:
No, I very seriously doubt that you or blueta feel obligated to have a sex with a man because someone bought you dinner. You must have misread the post.
all us that say that, we dont feel obligated, we feel that thats whats expected. Doesnt mean we'll go and fulfill the expectation.



And on a side note, I agree with some posters that said that they wouldnt want a man paying for the whole tab until they are fully a couple, like they were going out for months or so. Then I would feel comfortable with that. Until then, a gentle touch and nice words are enough to make me feel special and wanna stick around. Thats just me. Everyone is different
 
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foreigngirl said:
all us that say that, we dont feel obligated, we feel that thats whats expected. Doesnt mean we'll go and fulfill the expectation.



And on a side note, I agree with some posters that said that they wouldnt want a man paying for the whole tab until they are fully a couple, like they were going out for months or so. Then I would feel comfortable with that. Until then, a gentle touch and nice words are enough to make me feel special and wanna stick around. Thats just me. Everyone is different
Well, I wasn't talking about you and blueta. I never said you would, nor would I expect it from you two. I read your guys posts. You have a different viewpoint on it than I do, and that is cool. Jeez, nothing to get uptight about.

The thread was just meant for the women to express their opinions on the topic. My viewpoint is lots more old fashioned, probably. I haven't been knocking anyone one way or the other.
 
heatherrae said:
Well, thanks for telling ME what I mean and how I feel without taking the time to read.

If you don't like my me me me threads, why post on them? How about you just go attack someone else.
I read the frist post then a page or 2 in then last 1-2 which were crap. Hello it is 17 fucking pages and not all of them are golderm. Anyway I made a comments based on what you said ... you know what fuck it logic cleary doesn't work on you not even going to waste my time. Oh and I can post where ever I like give me feeligs where ever I like. If you don't like it step away from the keyboard.
 
stop trying to defend yourself. i, for one, choose to believe you when you say it's not about the money. i could be wrong, but i'll never know. i'd rather give you the benefit of the doubt. whether or not i agree entirely, it's ok. you feel the way you feel.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
I read the frist post then a page or 2 in then last 1-2 which were crap. Hello it is 17 fucking pages and not all of them are golderm. Anyway I made a comments based on what you said ... you know what fuck it logic cleary doesn't work on you not even going to waste my time. Oh and I can post where ever I like give me feeligs where ever I like. If you don't like it step away from the keyboard.
You find every opportunity to be bitchy with me.

The thread was a good natured, funny thread not meant to insult anyone, and you come in with a shitty attitude and guns blazing for nothing.
 
jackangel said:
stop trying to defend yourself. i, for one, choose to believe you when you say it's not about the money. i could be wrong, but i'll never know. i'd rather give you the benefit of the doubt. whether or not i agree entirely, it's ok. you feel the way you feel.
Yeah, people can take it the way that they like. If I were all about money, I would not have married a man who made less than I did.

My views may be old fashioned about dating, but I just feel that dutch dates are very unromantic. When he asks, he pays. When I ask, I'll pay or make dinner or something.
It can be a picnic, a cup of joe, a walk or whatever. I just don't like coldness of dutch dating.
 
heatherrae said:
I think you have your head so far up KB's butt that you find every opportunity to be bitchy with me.

The thread was a good natured, funny thread not meant to insult anyone, and you come in with a shitty attitude and guns blazing for nothing.

Not meant to insult anyone? :rolleyes:

heatherrae said:
It takes a woman with a pretty low self esteem if she thought that a man paying for dinner means that he has bought her sexual favors for the night. .

Your passive aggressive shit may fly with most here but me not so much.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
Not meant to insult anyone? :rolleyes:



Your passive aggressive shit may fly with most here but me not so much.
That wasn't passive aggressive or aggressive at all. I just don't think you understand what it says. I don't think you put out for dinner. That was sort of the point I was making.

The thread was pretty civil and friendly debate until you came in it making all sorts of accusations.

Don't you have something better to do tonight than take jabs at me?
 
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Sorry to say HR, but thats what got me too - that "women with low self esteem" crap. Until then, it looked like we are only putting out our thoughts. Maybe you ment it a different way, but re-read it again while thinking that someone else wrote it and you will feel me what I'm saying.
 
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