Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second date?

[AAP]

If he doesn't pick up the tab and put out afterwards on the first date, there won't be a second.

Call me shallow, I don't care.

 

[heatherrae]

lmao

bcbg dress at a burger joint

classy!

Not only was it bcbg but black and slinky with some beading. I looked like an absolute fool.

When someone says dinner and drinks, I don't assume burgers and a milk shake is what he means...lol.

 

[yonkers weights]

Did you put out afterwards? Be honest.... Any pics? JK

 

[rnch]

who asked whom out?

if the gal asked the man out, would she still want him to pay?

 

[KillahBee]

lol at shortsightedness

 

[yonkers weights]

Even if she asked me out, I would pay. I would hope she would offer so I can see if she is a gold digger or not but I would say I got it.

who asked whom out?

if the gal asked the man out, would she still want him to pay?

 

[Faizakafez]

Not only was it bcbg but black and slinky with some beading. I looked like an absolute fool.

When someone says dinner and drinks, I don't assume burgers and a milk shake is what he means...lol.

i think your taste in men might just be a little off

you know

oh check ur k!

 

[Y_lifter]

If a Woman has the 100% expectation that they are going to be treated to a meal etc simply because they are a Woman and he is the Man..

Don't bitch if he treats you like property later on..

This isn't saying that many men(including myself) enjoy treating a woman to a night out. But you seem to have the "expectation" that he is a loser if he doesn't.

This mentality is straight out of the 1960's when most women didn't have their own money, and relied upon men to provide for them financially.

And yea, this dude wasn't too keen on basic dating etiquette.
Regardless of who paid

 

[BNG]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

How would you have a clue before a first date? The point of a first date is getting to know someone.

Unless you'd never met him in person, and talked to him very little prior too, there should have been some clues. The way a person dresses, what kind of food do they like, favorite restaurants, ect. Did he not ask what you were in the mood for? Did he ask if there were anything you DIDN'T like?

I've gone on first dates that were very casual. But my date knew ahead of time. This guy showed up dressed like he was going to taco bell for a first date and had no plan? He doesn't sound like he's very with it. He could have said how great you looked in that dress, ect, whatever, then had you take him to buy something more fitting for how you were dressed. He could have told you all that then also told you he needed some down time and wanted to slum it. You could have gone back in for some jeans and tank top. He's as socially inept as they come. He’s probably a real intellectual.

 

[heatherrae]

who asked whom out?

if the gal asked the man out, would she still want him to pay?

He asked me out. I've never asked a man on a date unless we were well into the committed stage.