This thread made me realize that I didn't date that much.
To answer your question - no.
Your date - had no sense whatsoever and that's a big turn off in itself.
I have have walked through restaurant kitchens and back door exits to ditch a "date" before - if I got the pyscho "I've got toys under my bed i'd like to show you" or "I still live with my momma" vibe I was out.
If I liked my date and saw a second date coming I always tried to pay and the guy wouldn't hear of it but they always thought it was "cute" that I tried.
All I can say is - THANK GOD I don't have to date anymore.
Dating bites.
On my last first date I was like listen - this is who I am, yahda yahda, who are you what do you like - yahda (are you going to eat that piece of sushi?) yahda - everything was very much on the table without being tacky and it was refreshing, it was like hanging out with an old friend catching up on life.