Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second date?

[heatherrae]

Sounds like a very kind and sweet offer. I'd even bring a flower.

Now the real question; what's your favorite dish to cook or rather what do you cook the best (taste wise)? LOL

I cook italian food very well and southern food (like paula deen). I really have a wide range of food that I make.

I can whip up an excellent steak on the grill with peppercorns and roasted red pepper sauce.

I have a pretty wide repetoire as far as food goes.

What is your favorite?

 

[BigRupe]

I cook italian food very well and southern food (like paula deen). I really have a wide range of food that I make.

I can whip up an excellent steak on the grill with peppercorns and roasted red pepper sauce.

I have a pretty wide repetoire as far as food goes.

What is your favorite?

I can truly eat just about anything, but I love fresh seafood cooked on a grill.

I have some friends who work on the water and I get fresh scallops, shrimp, and fish.

I put it on the grill, add some water soaked mesquite chips, close the lid, wait until it's just right, and it's the best food you'll ever eat.

That and right now the cantelope and summer sweet corn are in season and of course big red slices of vine ripened tomatoes.

I also love a good steak, but seem to rarely eat steak anymore for some reason or another.

Italian is good too and I always crave gnocchi. One of my friends is Italian and his family makes them from scratch.

Now you've got me hungry and all I had to eat today was egg whites and oatmeal for breakfast, and a protein shake.

 

[velvett]

I can truly eat just about anything, but I love fresh seafood cooked on a grill.

I have some friends who work on the water and I get fresh scallops, shrimp, and fish.

I put it on the grill, add some water soaked mesquite chips, close the lid, wait until it's just right, and it's the best food you'll ever eat.

That and right now the cantelope and summer sweet corn are in season and of course big red slices of vine ripened tomatoes.

I also love a good steak, but seem to rarely eat steak anymore for some reason or another.

Italian is good too and I always crave gnocchi. One of my friends is Italian and his family makes them from scratch.

Now you've got me hungry and all I had to eat today was egg whites and oatmeal for breakfast, and a protein shake.

*drool*

 

[heatherrae]

I can truly eat just about anything, but I love fresh seafood cooked on a grill.

I have some friends who work on the water and I get fresh scallops, shrimp, and fish.

I put it on the grill, add some water soaked mesquite chips, close the lid, wait until it's just right, and it's the best food you'll ever eat.

That and right now the cantelope and summer sweet corn are in season and of course big red slices of vine ripened tomatoes.

I also love a good steak, but seem to rarely eat steak anymore for some reason or another.

Italian is good too and I always crave gnocchi. One of my friends is Italian and his family makes them from scratch.

Now you've got me hungry and all I had to eat today was egg whites and oatmeal for breakfast, and a protein shake.

Well, if you are ever in my neck of the woods I'll make you some home made gnocchi and sauce, then.

Try wrapping those fresh melon slices in prosciutto. mmmmmmmmmm

 

[Bikini Mod]

you and heatherrae are both VERY money driven. to a disgusting extent.

but you found someone and both seem to be extremely happy together so i cant hate on you too much

LOL@ the money driven.

I married a man that was homeless... so you were saying?

Am I that stupid or just lying to a bunch of internet tards to hurt their e-feelings?

.... or maybe it has NOTHING to do with money at all?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Amen. I remember when my girl and I went to the beach and she busted out a few tupperware containers of this very simple salad, and some lukewarm drumsticks. And for desert, one Snickers bar. It was by far the most enjoyable meal I've had in my life.

Too bad for you... the most enjoyable meal I have had was prepared for me by MY HUSBAND.

How old are you... 26? At that age the most enjoyable meal prepared for you should have been made by YOUR MOTHER.

When was the last time you put forth the effort? You think that because a wallet is fat that *makes it all ok*?

NOT!

 

[BigRupe]

Well, if you are ever in my neck of the woods I'll make you some home made gnocchi and sauce, then.

Try wrapping those fresh melon slices in prosciutto. mmmmmmmmmm

I'll take you up on it, but where's your "neck" at? LOL

I might have said earlier, but I'm near DC in the suburbs.

 

[heatherrae]

I'll take you up on it, but where's your "neck" at? LOL

I might have said earlier, but I'm near DC in the suburbs.

I live in bardstown ky.

 

[KillahBee]

Jesus fuck, don't anyone EVER quote some fucking backwoods chicking defaming all Italians by talking about gnocchi and "sauce".

fucking ewwwww, you'd be chewed up and spit out if you ever talked that shit anywhere near Italians.

 

[heatherrae]

Jesus fuck, don't anyone EVER quote some fucking backwoods chicking defaming all Italians by talking about gnocchi and "sauce".

fucking ewwwww, you'd be chewed up and spit out if you ever talked that shit anywhere near Italians.

I actually learned to make it from my bf's mother and father who were honest to God real Italians who could speak Italian and didn't get some schtick from goodfellas, unlike you, scrunchy boy.

 

[BigRupe]

I have friends in Kentucky somewhere. My friend worked for the secret service and when he retired he and his wife moved there.

He works part time at some prison somewhere. I'll call them and see where they live.

Kentucky is a beautiful state. How did you end up there?

I would have guessed something different.

 

[heatherrae]

I have friends in Kentucky somewhere. My friend worked for the secret service and when he retired he and his wife moved there.

He works part time at some prison somewhere. I'll call them and see where they live.

Kentucky is a beautiful state. How did you end up there?

I would have guessed something different.

I grew up in Kentucky. This is where most of my family lives. I've lived other places though.

 

[BigRupe]

I grew up in Kentucky. This is where most of my family lives. I've lived other places though.

I'm still trying to "grow up". LOL

I thought Atlanta...maybe Florida or Cali. Too nice for NYC.

Can you really make gnocchi??? Major carb overload, but they are awesome!

 

[heatherrae]

I'm still trying to "grow up". LOL

I thought Atlanta...maybe Florida or Cali. Too nice for NYC.

Can you really make gnocchi??? Major carb overload, but they are awesome!

I lived in florida for about 6 years in the early nineties and for one year last year.

Yeah, I had a bf for 4 years in undergrad who was full italian. His father and mom came over from italy to America. They taught me to make gnocchi and sauce and homemade pastas. I make good white sauces, too, but they didn't teach me to make the white sauce. I never make dough and roll out pasta anymore, but he gnocchi are pretty easy to make, really. No rolling required.

 

[nimbus]

I actually learned to make it from my bf's mother and father who were honest to God real Italians who could speak Italian and didn't get some schtick from goodfellas, unlike you, scrunchy boy.

haha, i can't wait to call somebody scrunchy boy

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

I grew up in Kentucky. This is where most of my family lives. I've lived other places though.

I love ya even though you are from the land of school bus lawn ornaments..

 

[heatherrae]

I love ya even though you are from the land of school bus lawn ornaments..

I love you too. (you make good double thick milkshakes)

 

[superqt4u2nv]

It is stupid to expect the man to pay. I am always prepared to pay my own way on a first date. I would never write someone off just cause they wanted to go dutch.

If your expecting him to pay then what is wrong with him expecting you to put out?

 

[heatherrae]

It is stupid to expect the man to pay. I am always prepared to pay my own way on a first date. I would never write someone off just cause they wanted to go dutch.

If your expecting him to pay then what is wrong with him expecting you to put out?

It takes a woman with a pretty low self esteem if she thought that a man paying for dinner means that he has bought her sexual favors for the night.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

On my last first date I was like listen - this is who I am, yahda yahda, who are you what do you like - yahda (are you going to eat that piece of sushi?) yahda - everything was very much on the table without being tacky and it was refreshing, it was like hanging out with an old friend catching up on life...

...it's been that way ever since.

I am going to be in NYC the 24-26th lets go on a date

 

[superqt4u2nv]

It takes a woman with a pretty low self esteem if she thought that a man paying for dinner means that he has bought her sexual favors for the night.

I think yeah missed my point. I was saying that what is the diffrence between the two? Nothing, both are silly expectations people are putting on the other person.

Self esteem shoud not be routed in a man willing into to drop two bills on a dinner. If him spending money on you makes you feel special you might want think about that for a minute. Kind words thoughts etc should make you feel special not $$$.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

I am going to be in NYC the 24-26th lets go on a date

Well, dating and payments. This is a no win for me. I never let any woman pay for anything. But, hey..

 

[heatherrae]

I think yeah missed my point. I was saying that what is the diffrence between the two? Nothing, both are silly expectations people are putting on the other person.

Self esteem shoud not be routed in a man willing into to drop two bills on a dinner. If him spending money on you makes you feel special you might want think about that for a minute. Kind words thoughts etc should make you feel special not $$$.

Had you read on the thread a bit you would know that isn't exactly my point.

It isn't about how much a man spends. It is about someone asking you out and then treating you more special than just a beer buddy by splitting the tab. The one who invites should pick up the tab. It can be something as little as an ice cream cone and a walk.

If you think it is about cash outlay, then you missed the point.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Well, dating and payments. This is a no win for me. I never let any woman pay for anything. But, hey..

Yeah but your old and old fashioned

 

[AAP]

It takes a woman with a pretty low self esteem if she thought that a man paying for dinner means that he has bought her sexual favors for the night.

Personally I prefer my dates to have low self esteem. It saves me a LOT of effort and manipulation down the road when in comes time to get them ensconced in a codependent relationship favoring me.

 

[heatherrae]

Personally I prefer my dates to have low self esteem. It saves me a LOT of effort and manipulation down the road when in comes time to get them ensconced in a codependent relationship favoring me.

I'm so completely enamoured with you....LOL.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Had you read on the thread a bit you would know that isn't exactly my point.

It isn't about how much a man spends. It is about someone asking you out and then treating you more special than just a beer buddy by splitting the tab. The one who invites should pick up the tab. It can be something as little as an ice cream cone and a walk.

If you think it is about cash outlay, then you missed the point.

Pardon me I work 12 hour days and train 2-3 hours a day no time to go through 17 pages of, me me me spattered with a bit of actual topic.

Again you feel special because he is picking up the tab that is what your saying. I am saying I don't need that to happen to feel special.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

It takes a woman with a pretty low self esteem if she thought that a man paying for dinner means that he has bought her sexual favors for the night.

really? Now me and Blueta are women with low self esteem, cuz we both feel the way QT does? Pretty crooked view if you ask me.

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

really? Now me and Blueta are women with low self esteem, cuz we both feel the way QT does? Pretty crooked view if you ask me.

No, I very seriously doubt that you or blueta feel obligated to have a sex with a man because someone bought you dinner. You must have misread the post.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

No, I very seriously doubt that you or blueta feel obligated to have a sex with a man because someone bought you dinner. You must have misread the post.

Yes she must of cause you are never wrong

 

[heatherrae]

Pardon me I work 12 hour days and train 2-3 hours a day no time to go through 17 pages of, me me me spattered with a bit of actual topic.

Again you feel special because he is picking up the tab that is what your saying. I am saying I don't need that to happen to feel special.

Well, thanks for telling ME what I mean and how I feel without taking the time to read.

If you don't like my me me me threads, why post on them? How about you just go attack someone else.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

No, I very seriously doubt that you or blueta feel obligated to have a sex with a man because someone bought you dinner. You must have misread the post.

all us that say that, we dont feel obligated, we feel that thats whats expected. Doesnt mean we'll go and fulfill the expectation.



And on a side note, I agree with some posters that said that they wouldnt want a man paying for the whole tab until they are fully a couple, like they were going out for months or so. Then I would feel comfortable with that. Until then, a gentle touch and nice words are enough to make me feel special and wanna stick around. Thats just me. Everyone is different

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

all us that say that, we dont feel obligated, we feel that thats whats expected. Doesnt mean we'll go and fulfill the expectation.



And on a side note, I agree with some posters that said that they wouldnt want a man paying for the whole tab until they are fully a couple, like they were going out for months or so. Then I would feel comfortable with that. Until then, a gentle touch and nice words are enough to make me feel special and wanna stick around. Thats just me. Everyone is different

Well, I wasn't talking about you and blueta. I never said you would, nor would I expect it from you two. I read your guys posts. You have a different viewpoint on it than I do, and that is cool. Jeez, nothing to get uptight about.

The thread was just meant for the women to express their opinions on the topic. My viewpoint is lots more old fashioned, probably. I haven't been knocking anyone one way or the other.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Well, thanks for telling ME what I mean and how I feel without taking the time to read.

If you don't like my me me me threads, why post on them? How about you just go attack someone else.

I read the frist post then a page or 2 in then last 1-2 which were crap. Hello it is 17 fucking pages and not all of them are golderm. Anyway I made a comments based on what you said ... you know what fuck it logic cleary doesn't work on you not even going to waste my time. Oh and I can post where ever I like give me feeligs where ever I like. If you don't like it step away from the keyboard.

 

[jackangel]

stop trying to defend yourself. i, for one, choose to believe you when you say it's not about the money. i could be wrong, but i'll never know. i'd rather give you the benefit of the doubt. whether or not i agree entirely, it's ok. you feel the way you feel.

 

[heatherrae]

I read the frist post then a page or 2 in then last 1-2 which were crap. Hello it is 17 fucking pages and not all of them are golderm. Anyway I made a comments based on what you said ... you know what fuck it logic cleary doesn't work on you not even going to waste my time. Oh and I can post where ever I like give me feeligs where ever I like. If you don't like it step away from the keyboard.

You find every opportunity to be bitchy with me.

The thread was a good natured, funny thread not meant to insult anyone, and you come in with a shitty attitude and guns blazing for nothing.

 

[heatherrae]

stop trying to defend yourself. i, for one, choose to believe you when you say it's not about the money. i could be wrong, but i'll never know. i'd rather give you the benefit of the doubt. whether or not i agree entirely, it's ok. you feel the way you feel.

Yeah, people can take it the way that they like. If I were all about money, I would not have married a man who made less than I did.

My views may be old fashioned about dating, but I just feel that dutch dates are very unromantic. When he asks, he pays. When I ask, I'll pay or make dinner or something.
It can be a picnic, a cup of joe, a walk or whatever. I just don't like coldness of dutch dating.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

I think you have your head so far up KB's butt that you find every opportunity to be bitchy with me.

The thread was a good natured, funny thread not meant to insult anyone, and you come in with a shitty attitude and guns blazing for nothing.

Not meant to insult anyone?

It takes a woman with a pretty low self esteem if she thought that a man paying for dinner means that he has bought her sexual favors for the night. .

Your passive aggressive shit may fly with most here but me not so much.

 

[heatherrae]

Not meant to insult anyone?



Your passive aggressive shit may fly with most here but me not so much.

That wasn't passive aggressive or aggressive at all. I just don't think you understand what it says. I don't think you put out for dinner. That was sort of the point I was making.

The thread was pretty civil and friendly debate until you came in it making all sorts of accusations.

Don't you have something better to do tonight than take jabs at me?

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

Sorry to say HR, but thats what got me too - that "women with low self esteem" crap. Until then, it looked like we are only putting out our thoughts. Maybe you ment it a different way, but re-read it again while thinking that someone else wrote it and you will feel me what I'm saying.

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

Sorry to say HR, but thats what got me too - that "women with low self esteem" crap. Until then, it looked like we are only putting out our thoughts. Maybe you ment it a different way, but re-read it again while thinking that someone else wrote it and you will feel me what I'm saying.

If you think I was saying that you ladies put out for dinner or have low self esteems because you don't mind going dutch, I don't think that at all.

I don't think you, blueta, or superqt have low self esteems or are tramps, in the least. Actually, you three are quite far from that.

My point was that if a woman felt obligated to have sex just because a man paid for her dinner she would have to have a low self esteem.

Holy cow, you guys are sensitive tonight.

 

[javaguru]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

If you think I was saying that you ladies put out for dinner or have low self esteems because you don't mind going dutch, I don't think that at all.

I don't think you, blueta, or superqt have low self esteems or are tramps, in the least. Actually, you three are quite far from that.

My point was that if a woman felt obligated to have sex just because a man paid for her dinner she would have to have a low self esteem.

Holy cow, you guys are sensitive tonight.

I took QT to Wendy's AND I paid...just call me pimp daddy....

 

[superqt4u2nv]

That wasn't passive aggressive or aggressive at all. I just don't think you understand what it says. I don't think you put out for dinner. That was sort of the point I was making.

The thread was pretty civil and friendly debate until you came in it making all sorts of accusations.

Don't you have something better to do tonight than take jabs at me?

Holy hell I came in here made a comment my first comment was not attack at all just my opnion on the matter that is it plaiin and simple. Then you came in with your pissy little passive aggressive shit you sure as fuck right I am going to come in guns blazing.

Don't you have anything better to do like give birth or something?

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I took QT to Wendy's AND I paid...just call me pimp daddy....

lol...you big spender.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

If you think I was saying that you ladies put out for dinner or have low self esteems because you don't mind going dutch, I don't think that at all.

I don't think you, blueta, or superqt have low self esteems or are tramps, in the least. Actually, you three are quite far from that.

My point was that if a woman felt obligated to have sex just because a man paid for her dinner she would have to have a low self esteem.

Holy cow, you guys are sensitive tonight.

lol....I am not sensitive, but there you go with the wrong choice of words again - OBLIGATED. We dont feel OBLIGATED, we feel that they would EXPECT it. There. All better now. Thats what I tried to bring through you.

Anyways....I know you dont feel that way, you just chose the wrong word. Has happened to me many, many times

 

[bigmann245]

wow a flame war, whoda thunk it????? typical EF drama

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I took QT to Wendy's AND I paid...just call me pimp daddy....

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

If you think I was saying that you ladies put out for dinner or have low self esteems because you don't mind going dutch, I don't think that at all.

I don't think you, blueta, or superqt have low self esteems or are tramps, in the least. Actually, you three are quite far from that.

My point was that if a woman felt obligated to have sex just because a man paid for her dinner she would have to have a low self esteem.

Holy cow, you guys are sensitive tonight.

Seriouse how is it that 3 other people are senstive and not you being senstive?

 

[bigmann245]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

lol....I am not sensitive, but there you go with the wrong choice of words again - OBLIGATED. We dont feel OBLIGATED, we feel that they would EXPECT it. There. All better now. Thats what I tried to bring through you.

Anyways....I know you dont feel that way, you just chose the wrong word. Has happened to me many, many times

she said people who feel obligated to have sex have low self esteems but people who feel its expected don't.

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

lol....I am not sensitive, but there you go with the wrong choice of words again - OBLIGATED. We dont feel OBLIGATED, we feel that they would EXPECT it. There. All better now. Thats what I tried to bring through you.

Anyways....I know you dont feel that way, you just chose the wrong word. Has happened to me many, many times

I'm still not getting this.

I said if "a woman" , which means a hypothetical woman, not you or blueta, or superqt, or anyone else on ef, felt "obligated" that would mean that HYPOTHETICAL woman has a low self esteem.

I was not referring to women who felt that a man would expect sex, like you and blueta may think that they do. So, I wasn't referring to you. I was referring to a hypothetical person who felt a certain way.

wow.

By the way, I don't think many men expect sex for paying for dinner on the first date. If they do, they are JERKS, and I wouldn't mind disappointing them, anyway.

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

she said people who feel obligated to have sex have low self esteems but people who feel its expected don't.

WHEW! Exactly! That is what I mean.

 

[bigmann245]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

WHEW! Exactly! That is what I mean.

at leased thats what I got from it

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

Seriouse how is it that 3 other people are senstive and not you being senstive?

What three other people?

I think you are trying to pick a fight. I'm not going to participate in this nonsense.

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

at leased thats what I got from it

No, you understand what I said perfectly.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

ok. Got it. Thanks BigMan and HR. My brain is tired from the daily mental stress

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

ok. Got it. Thanks BigMan and HR. My brain is tired from the daily mental stress

It's all good, pretty gal.

 

[javaguru]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

What three other people?

I think you are trying to pick a fight. I'm not going to participate in this nonsense.

I predict you will.....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yp_l5ntikaU

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

What three other people?

I think you are trying to pick a fight. I'm not going to participate in this nonsense.

Do you read your own posts Blueta FG and QT oi seriously I give up.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

What three other people?

I think you are trying to pick a fight. I'm not going to participate in this nonsense.

I think men that don't pay are men that use women and women let them. Poor girls that allow this!!

HR ya know I love ya! I am going to make an extra extra thick double mocha vanilla shake and bring it to you! I will even pay!

When you coming to have the old BM babysit?

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I predict you will.....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yp_l5ntikaU

If you won't marry me, I may die of a broken heart.

 

[bigmann245]

but i do agree that most men do expect SOMETHING from paying. to tell you the truth even if you went dutch they expect things. not all guys but i know a lot of guys that do, and if a woman pays they will keep expecting you too and then become a mooch. i for one would NEVER mooch even if i dated a movie star, id still pay.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

It's all good, pretty gal.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

but i do agree that most men do expect SOMETHING from paying. to tell you the truth even if you went dutch they expect things. not all guys but i know a lot of guys that do, and if a woman pays they will keep expecting you too and then become a mooch. i for one would NEVER mooch even if i dated a movie star, id still pay.

See that is the point I was trying to make too. Your good tonight

 

[Stefka]

I guess it depends on the guy.
I usually offer to pay.
But the guy insisting to pay is always nice.
If a guy asked me out and then expected me to pay for the whole thing then I would not be into that at all.
I have really bad taste in men though.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

but i do agree that most men do expect SOMETHING from paying. to tell you the truth even if you went dutch they expect things. not all guys but i know a lot of guys that do, and if a woman pays they will keep expecting you too and then become a mooch. i for one would NEVER mooch even if i dated a movie star, id still pay.

so, then, we are better off mooching them? Cuz nothing changes the expectations, anyways....

lol


just kiddin, KIDDING

 

[heatherrae]

but i do agree that most men do expect SOMETHING from paying. to tell you the truth even if you went dutch they expect things. not all guys but i know a lot of guys that do, and if a woman pays they will keep expecting you too and then become a mooch. i for one would NEVER mooch even if i dated a movie star, id still pay.

You think most men expect sex because they paid on a date? I've never gotten that feeling.

Maybe I put out too easily to have noticed? Just kidding.

 

[BroToom]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

You think most men expect sex because they paid on a date? I've never gotten that feeling.

Maybe I put out to easily to have noticed? Just kidding.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

you women are soooooooooooooooo stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

except HR

 

[javaguru]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

You think most men expect sex because they paid on a date? I've never gotten that feeling.

Maybe I put out too easily to have noticed?

TITCR

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

so, then, we are better off mooching them? Cuz nothing changes the expectations, anyways....

lol


just kiddin, KIDDING

See, I knew that you would be won over to my side...lol.

 

[bigmann245]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

You think most men expect sex because they paid on a date? I've never gotten that feeling.

Maybe I put out to easily to have noticed? Just kidding.

its not what i think its what other guys tell me. unless they are trying to be all manly and try to look tough in front of me but yea they complain that they paid for an expensive dinner and didn't get shit at the end of the night. yes they are shallow and is why they jump from girl to girl till they find one that does put out. sad but true. remember im a guy and i talk to other guys, they tell me more than they would a girl.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

See, I knew that you would be won over to my side...lol.

lol, not so fast there, hold on your horses

It was just an innocent thought

And I am married, so it doesnt matter who pays and I dont plan on going on dates

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

TITCR

wtf does that mean again?

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

wtf does that mean again?

I just know HTH and the rest of those are just blank to me. Samoth once gave me a link to the meaning of them, but I lost it

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

lol, not so fast there, hold on your horses

It was just an innocent thought

And I am married, so it doesnt matter who pays and I dont plan on going on dates

Once you are married it all comes out of the same money anyway....lol.

 

[heatherrae]

you women are soooooooooooooooo stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

except HR

LOL...I think we are from a different generation.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

Once you are married it all comes out of the same money anyway....lol.

yeap...lol



Sometimes my husband is too lazy to get his CC out of his pocket, so I end up giving mine. I wonder what that waitress thinks when she sees a girl picking up an almost 100$ tab

 

[KillahBee]

Jesus fuck, don't anyone EVER quote some fucking backwoods chicking defaming all Italians by talking about gnocchi and "sauce".

fucking ewwwww, you'd be chewed up and spit out if you ever talked that shit anywhere near Italians.

A "woman" who is not italian talking about italians. lolololzzzz. This chick may actually have a mental disease.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

See, I knew that you would be won over to my side...lol.

finally a woman gets a bit of it. Mooching NO how about your time is worth a dinner???? Or do you give it away if a man says Hi baby nice ass...... Don't think so... So if DINNER is 75 bucks and it takes you two hours to get ready, an hour to get there three hours to eat an hour to sit and talk. that is 10 bucks an hour, less gas and make up etc. divide that by 2... Well you are worth 5 bucks an hour... feel me? So to feel like ya gotta give up ass... You do the math.

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

yeap...lol



Sometimes my husband is too lazy to get his CC out of his pocket, so I end up giving mine. I wonder what that waitress thinks when she sees a girl picking up an almost 100$ tab

She thinks you two are married! lol.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

She thinks you two are married! lol.

Yup!

 

[BroToom]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

yeap...lol



Sometimes my husband is too lazy to get his CC out of his pocket, so I end up giving mine. I wonder what that waitress thinks when she sees a girl picking up an almost 100$ tab

who cares? i just hope she follows suit and tells her friends that its the 'IN' thing to do

 

[KillahBee]

Someone sent me K before saying that "she is gonna have that kid soon and hopefully be too busy for EF".

I actually think it will get worse.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

She thinks you two are married! lol.

omg, shut up, you are ruining my laugh this way

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

finally a woman gets a bit of it. Mooching NO how about your time is worth a dinner???? Or do you give it away if a man says Hi baby nice ass...... Don't think so... So if DINNER is 75 bucks and it takes you two hours to get ready, an hour to get there three hours to eat an hour to sit and talk. that is 10 bucks an hour, less gas and make up etc. divide that by 2... Well you are worth 5 bucks an hour... feel me? So to feel like ya gotta give up ass... You do the math.

I think it's the over 35 crowd who are feeling me...lol.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

who cares? i just hope she follows suit and tells her friends that its the 'IN' thing to do

wooo hoooooooooooo!!!!

I am a trend setter!

I am, right?

 

[Jon79]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I think it's the over 35 crowd who are feeling me...lol.

35 wow......

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I think it's the over 35 crowd who are feeling me...lol.

I guess the males that have an issue with this have never been able to buy food for more than one anyway. So the point is moot.

 

[bigmann245]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

She thinks you two are married! lol.

i always try the (oh shit, i forgot my wallet at home, can you get the tab tonight?" trick. works every time when i go out with my wife. then she pulls out the debit card thats attached to my account and then it doesn't seem that funny anymore.

 

[Dial_tone]

1. I wouldn't go out with anyone who took two hours to get ready
2. Enjoying the conversation and finding a keeper/elminating a dumper IS the payment for a date
3. Sex would purely a bonus..icing on the cake.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

i always try the (oh shit, i forgot my wallet at home, can you get the tab tonight?" trick. works every time when i go out with my wife. then she pulls out the debit card thats attached to my account and then it doesn't seem that funny anymore.

Well we are pre-trained anyway! The wife always uses the "Company Money" but, we are men not kids do we care if the old lady has our balls in her purse? Nope I say.

 

[Jon79]

once u are married should you not always have joint finances.....is it better to have seperate accounts and each other pay for different things? seems wrong to me but what do i know thats why i am asking....

because money can b the downfall of marrige i have seen it

 

[heatherrae]

1. I wouldn't go out with anyone who took two hours to get ready
2. Enjoying the conversation and finding a keeper/elminating a dumper IS the payment for a date
3. Sex would purely a bonus..icing on the cake.

and butt sex would be the cake, icing and a glass of milk?

lol.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

and butt sex would be the cake, icing and a glass of milk?

lol.

omg, you better have that baby out soon or I dont know what other sex fantasy is gonna get in your head

 

[bigmann245]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I think it's the over 35 crowd who are feeling me...lol.

so how many of these 35 and over men are "feeling you"? lol

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

omg, you better have that baby out soon or I dont know what other sex fantasy is gonna get in your head

that is DT's thing.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

once u are married should you not always have joint finances.....is it better to have seperate accounts and each other pay for different things? seems wrong to me but what do i know thats why i am asking....

because money can b the downfall of marrige i have seen it

then get a prenup


I dunno. We have joint finances. Other people feel differently

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

so how many of these 35 and over men are "feeling you"? lol

One.


My ob/gyn.


LOL.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

and butt sex would be the cake, icing and a glass of milk?

lol.

DT needs to be careful! I have a few guys from Palm Springs that take a lot longer to get ready and a lot longer to finish......

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

then get a prenup


I dunno. We have joint finances. Other people feel differently

So I need to ask BM for a couple dollars for lunch? SHIT thanks bro