Women and Sex.

[Lestat]

Star: No, I've seen your pictures, and your web cam pics, and you do not look fuzzy or fake. If you did I would have mentioned something. I was not attacking Jen, just stating an observation that I had (and I was not the only one it seems).

I do not really consider myself to be "smooth." I have friend's that were born with a silver tongue. They can basically seal the deal just by talking to any woman. They may not even look stellar, but the women look past that because they can make them laugh, flirt well, really make the woman feel good about themselves.

For me I am not good at forcing compliments, schmoozing, etc. If I am trying to get closer to a women I try to be genuine. If I feel something, I say it. If I think she looks great, I say it. I don't say "nice dress, you look great" because she just ran out and spent a ton of money on a dress.. I say "nice dress, you look great" when I see a woman in a dress I think is nice and she looks great in. I guess in the short term, it doesn't make me smooth and I probably miss a few opportunities. Some women like the charm, and the fake enthusiasm that some guys have mastered. With me you usually know that what I say to you personally is sincere and not some BS I made up to get into your pants.


HanZ:

I can see how your theory would make sense.

Brian

 

[casavant]

Damn, Lestat, try to hold yourself back on the glowing complements. LOL

 

[Darko]

Well i am a couple moths past 21, hopefully all these girls hitting on me will start soon.

 

[milo hobgoblin]

Nice

I have to agree with Lestat on this one.

His expereince seems so familiar. i was a late bloomer and spent most of my twenties married. I got divorced at 30 and its been AWESOME ever since.

the only difference is that I like women to be a copuple years older than me and I wont date a girl unless she likes anal sex.

But Ive found that I really want to be married again. the best sex is really kinky sex with someone you love.

Another nice thing about sex in your 30's is that you become much more patient and leanr to enjoy the experience more....you arent so preoccupied with yourself.

and I LOVE single moms. Their pritorities are usually better and they dont spend ALL their time thinking about themselves....plus Im a single dad.

heheheh MILF's ...deragatory but it cracks me up.

and Star...you are gorgeous.... my girlfriend and I would devour you.

 

[Lestat]

If you need some help tightening up your game let me know, I'll see if I can help.

You gotta start off with some confidence.. not cockyness, but confidence. You really need to approach new situations like you really don't care. Force yourself not to care. Girls like to be pursued, but at the same time you can't smother them. You have to keep them guessing, don't let them know that its a sure thing, they need to earn you attention too.

Plus hows your living situation? You on your own? Decent place? What's your room look like? Have anything on your wall that is unframed? Still play a lot of video games? What type of car do you drive? You don't have to have a new badass car, you just need to have someone that the woman is not embarrased to be in. Do you dress decent? Shave everyday? Good table manners? You gotta make sure you have you act together.

Brian

 

[Lestat]

I think everyone should subscribe to this post

 

[Rex]

There is also the guy who never wants to play in his league.. he thinks hes too good for nearly every girl out there and is great picking out flaws.. he is so "picky" he really never even asks girls out ever.. this person is really just to shy and insecure.. but masks it by saying "shes got a big ass" or "shes a butter face" and then talking shit when his friends get the balls to go up to her at a bar or party and strike up a conversation... they say things like "Do you see who he is talking to?? The beer goggles are in effect tonight!" This guy will never be satisfied and probably never bang anyone except for the women he finally settles on as his wife because he got so sick and tired of being lonely.

Brian

Holy shit you explained my cousin's friend to a fucking T. This kid is 19 year old prude, who has only hugged a few girls outside of his own family. He swears up and down that the only girl good enough for him is Britney Spears, and will find a flaw in any girl he can. He's cool to hang out with, but when you want to find some women his macking skills are well....Foghorn Leghorn says it best "the boy is as bright as an unlit lightbulb".

 

[gotmilk]

Nice to know that due to my status as a single mother that I am at the lowest rung of the desire ladder just below the fat chicks
Star

There are exceptions to the rule...besides...very few single mom's are in the shape you are in....

But he is correct about the quality gets better....I'll be 30 next Wednesday and this past year has more than made up for the crap pulled on me while in my 20's.

Then again Star...did you get your teeth fixed?

 

[BronzedGoddess]

Brian, give me the definition of cute.

 

[vinylgroover]

Brian, give me the definition of cute.

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