i'm going to disagree with everyone, i think this thread is pathetic. i use go to clubs and bars and be able to leave every time with a girl. my friends called it 'the curse'. and you know what, after doing everything sexually imaginable by the time i turned 20 (except gay stuff, no offense to you gay dudes), i realized how stupid i was and i would take it ALL back if i could. i thank God a lot that i don't have aids or ever caught anything, that i don't have a kid or two, and that i found someone willing to look beyond my past. take it from me, its not worth it. peace.