If you need some help tightening up your game let me know, I'll see if I can help.
You gotta start off with some confidence.. not cockyness, but confidence. You really need to approach new situations like you really don't care. Force yourself not to care. Girls like to be pursued, but at the same time you can't smother them. You have to keep them guessing, don't let them know that its a sure thing, they need to earn you attention too.
Plus hows your living situation? You on your own? Decent place? What's your room look like? Have anything on your wall that is unframed? Still play a lot of video games? What type of car do you drive? You don't have to have a new badass car, you just need to have someone that the woman is not embarrased to be in. Do you dress decent? Shave everyday? Good table manners? You gotta make sure you have you act together.
Brian