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Just to let you all know this is my first post here, Ive been lurking and reading various posts, and I have to say it seems to be a very friendly and informative community. Anyway enough of the introductions heres my question I sort of need help on.
I currently work at a Hotel as a part time waiter, I work with various staff of all ages 15-65, most are between 16-20 tho. Now it may be just me but I believe one of the people I work with is hinting to me that she fances me, things like the person has an o in their second name which I do and dark hair which again I meet this criteria. Now you all may be saying take your chance etc and ask you her but heres where the complications start.
First of all shes a manager, shes a year older at 20 but this bears no relevance. Im a very shy person really, due to fear of rejection which Ive never really experienced. Also the Hotel has sort of a rule that managers and waiting staff shouldnt mingle outside of work, as it may effect them in some way and they dont want that. Now I sort of know she does fancy me, maybe Im being arrogant and its in my head, but I cannot bring myself to even try as then working there for me may turn into a nightmare. Rumors in these sorts of places go a long way. Now I aint ugly, maybe not as big built as I would like, actually quite small frame really (working on that). But for some reason something seems to be holding me back. Maybe its the fact Im a virgin due to bad luck (last condom splitting), thats playing on my mind.
Sorry to have babbled, just trying to express my feelings so I can gain some insight from the more experienced people in this matter. Thanks
I currently work at a Hotel as a part time waiter, I work with various staff of all ages 15-65, most are between 16-20 tho. Now it may be just me but I believe one of the people I work with is hinting to me that she fances me, things like the person has an o in their second name which I do and dark hair which again I meet this criteria. Now you all may be saying take your chance etc and ask you her but heres where the complications start.
First of all shes a manager, shes a year older at 20 but this bears no relevance. Im a very shy person really, due to fear of rejection which Ive never really experienced. Also the Hotel has sort of a rule that managers and waiting staff shouldnt mingle outside of work, as it may effect them in some way and they dont want that. Now I sort of know she does fancy me, maybe Im being arrogant and its in my head, but I cannot bring myself to even try as then working there for me may turn into a nightmare. Rumors in these sorts of places go a long way. Now I aint ugly, maybe not as big built as I would like, actually quite small frame really (working on that). But for some reason something seems to be holding me back. Maybe its the fact Im a virgin due to bad luck (last condom splitting), thats playing on my mind.
Sorry to have babbled, just trying to express my feelings so I can gain some insight from the more experienced people in this matter. Thanks
