SoKluless;
Not saying were insensitive, because were not. We do have the ability to be caring and intimate without having sex and being romantic as well. it's just that we do it much more frequently at the begining of a relationship than we do 2 years+ into a relationship. Men also are more reciprocal than initiatory. Meaning that we will do kind things that you like/want/enjoy when our needs/desires are met. For example, you blow me on the way to pick up the child at the sitters after work or pull the car over for a wham bam on the way home from work, or any other time just out of the blue; then we are happy and will buy flowers to say thank you, leave love notes on your car or the dining room table for you to find, etc. To put it bluntly never slow down on the sex and we will never slow down on showing you we appreciate the sex! That is the key to harmony between men and women. Another example, if you want a guy to comprimise or go shoping for shoes with you, blow him, swallow, smile and then ask. I promise you he will be much more willing to comply!
Later....
B.