Why is it that Sex ends with......

[alien amp pharm]

Covergrl, we all this "friend" you speak of is really you.

Perhaps you need some aap lovin' to spice things back up.

What time is good for you?

 

[NJjuice22]

lmao..aap is smoooove.

 

[BO-DEN]

your signature forced my testicles to go into my stomach

lol good one

 

[covergrl80]

Covergrl, we all this "friend" you speak of is really you.

Perhaps you need some aap lovin' to spice things back up.

What time is good for you?

That is not me. I for one am not married Yet, nor do I have 3 kids HUN

 

[chesty]

With 3 kids and not having Family in the same state she finds it a little hard to be spontaneous or to plan things.

Those are excuses. You don't have to have a schedule or a planner. It takes 30 minutes or less of ones life away to be intimate in that manner which is as important or more so than saying I love you. I was in the Marines with a war going on and we found time, then I was in college and we were 90 miles apart for quite sometime and we found time (well I did) It is a matter of priorities, either you want to be intimate or you don't. If you don't you better find out why quick or things will be a living hell before long. She is only 22, at this rate when she is 35 she will for something new and different and it is gonna be a mess. I know from experience.

 

[markshark]

The same thing goes for men,not just women. What the hell is the "u guys" shit. I think you may need to go read the whole thread and then come back with your 2 cents.

i did read the thread. msot guys are content with the love of their life. women are always looking for something better. and when i say "u guys" i mean females in general. thats why im never getting married.

 

[Sassy69]

That's just depressing. My parents are still bangin after 41 yrs of marriage, 3 kids, 2 grandkids.

 

[Smurfy]

maybe she is stressed out in her new life situation. not saying she isnt happy, but taking on that much at age 22 is probably alot especially if she is away from family. if someone at age 22 has no sex drive, it is definitely a red flag. she's probably overwhelmed with life changes. she should see a counselor on ehr own and then, possibly with her husband. she's got nothing to lose at this point.

 

[chesty]

It takes two to party. If something is not right in the relationship, then one will not want it. And it doesn't have to be an obvious wrong. 22 years old with 3 kids, one that is almost half her age, she is barely ready for a marriage let alone a ready made family.

And to say they are in love with each when she is not interested in sex doesn't make much sense?! If they are in love then the most intimate of acts will not be a chore or to do item and will be a spontaneous and meaningful act that actually will reduce stress, and make you feel better about yourself and the problems you may have.

In this case, maybe she does not enjoy sex with him because it does not fulfill her needs/desires or what she thinks sex is supposed to be like. Maybe she is not good at it so he just acts mechanical to get it over with. Whatever the problem is they need to figure it out.

 

[covergrl80]

It takes two to party. If something is not right in the relationship, then one will not want it. And it doesn't have to be an obvious wrong. 22 years old with 3 kids, one that is almost half her age, she is barely ready for a marriage let alone a ready made family.

And to say they are in love with each when she is not interested in sex doesn't make much sense?! If they are in love then the most intimate of acts will not be a chore or to do item and will be a spontaneous and meaningful act that actually will reduce stress, and make you feel better about yourself and the problems you may have.

In this case, maybe she does not enjoy sex with him because it does not fulfill her needs/desires or what she thinks sex is supposed to be like. Maybe she is not good at it so he just acts mechanical to get it over with. Whatever the problem is they need to figure it out.

I did forget one important part of info. SHe has been on Prozac for about 8 months now. She know that could be some of the problem. But she just can not come off of it over night.