Why is it that Sex ends with......

[Smurfy]

I have noticed over the years that when I lose interest in sex with the person Im with, it's because the relationship is not good.

 

[EnderJE]

Well, they need to put the romance back into their relationship or it will die quickly. It shouldn't be a to do item, it should be spontaneous if possible, but planned is also way cool. They should look forward to it. If they don't fix it it won't be long. I always wanted it until i started hearing shit like hurry up I'm tired, your on my hair, your too heavy, etc. I actually recorded how long it was before she would ask for it and guess what? She never did, after like 3 months I finally just went for it. And got the usual response, "You've got to be kidding me?, I'm tired and I have to get up in the morning. Well, just hurry it so I can get to sleep."

Okay, the way you put it seems like she never wanted it or was negative about it. I'll admit that I usually start it, but we both have fun in the end and wouldn't leave her because of that.

 

[timrock]

Were not talking about Me. This is my friend.

oh. maybe i was talking about me.

 

[covergrl80]

Well, they need to put the romance back into their relationship or it will die quickly. It shouldn't be a to do item, it should be spontaneous if possible, but planned is also way cool. They should look forward to it. If they don't fix it it won't be long. I always wanted it until i started hearing shit like hurry up I'm tired, your on my hair, your too heavy, etc. I actually recorded how long it was before she would ask for it and guess what? She never did, after like 3 months I finally just went for it. And got the usual response, "You've got to be kidding me?, I'm tired and I have to get up in the morning. Well, just hurry it so I can get to sleep."

With 3 kids and not having Family in the same state she finds it a little hard to be spontaneous or to plan things.

 

[EnderJE]

With 3 kids and not having Family in the same state she finds it a little hard to be spontaneous or to plan things.

I agree about being spontaneous. But planning can be done easily. I would argue that the desire is missing.

 

[covergrl80]

I have noticed over the years that when I lose interest in sex with the person Im with, it's because the relationship is not good.

There very happy with eachother. The sex thing seems to get in the way.

 

[timrock]

anal sex is the cure for everything.

 

[covergrl80]

anal sex is the cure for everything.

If she does not want in where it's suppost to go she sure as hell is not going to want it in the ass

 

[EnderJE]

Counselling?

 

[covergrl80]

Counselling?

I was thinking A trip to see DR.Phil