Why is it that Sex ends with......

[biteme]

Marriage. And Mostly it's the women that does not want it anymore.

Is it that there tired of the man or something else?

This also goes for the Man too

That little poem in your signature is the reason I'm single. I'm looking for a cool chick.

 

[covergrl80]

That little poem in your signature is the reason I'm single. I'm looking for a cool chick.

OMG it is from a song. Shit. I did not make it up on my own!

 

[jack sparrow]

CG

 

[biteme]

OMG it is from a song. Shit. I did not make it up on my own!

Good. Now get rid of it before I puke!

 

[chesty]

That is what her Doc gave her to take. I have heard that it's given to a lot of people that have OCD

My counselor for marriage had me where a rubber band on my wrist and every time I started to dwell on something I was to snap it hard. That and some will power and now I am not ocd anymore.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

seek counselling. there are a couple of easy tricks the couple can do to increase desire, and its best to chat to a sex therapist about your situation specifically. common techniques are: not being allowed to have sex for a month, even if you want to (the artificial limitation makes you itch for it), no masturbation allowed, no getting undressed in front of each other, no showering with each other, no leaving the toilet door open to poop (yuk yukyukyuk) making proper time for each other etc etc...that sort of thing.

also, dont feel bad that you ahve no sex drive, you jsut got out of hospital. poor thing

 

[Forge]

I did forget one important part of info. SHe has been on Prozac for about 8 months now. She know that could be some of the problem. But she just can not come off of it over night.

Problem solved. Get off the drugs and most likely her sex drive will return.

But here is a question you can ask her: even though she is not interested in sex with her husband, is she still masturbating on her own? If yes, then the drugs are not to blame and there is a problem with the relationship. If no, then it is most likely the drugs.

 

[mrplunkey]

My theory:

Men naturally lose interest in screwing the same woman the same way all the time. Once some of that "newness" is lost, they don't put the same effort into chasing their wife/girlfriend.

Women see the diminished pursuit, and correspondingly lose interest in sex. Also, some women feel that after moving-in/marriage, they've "sealed the deal" so they don't have to "put out" as often anyway.

So there they go... guy has diminished interest and doesn't pursue like he used to. The woman becomes less sexual and doesn't feel compelled to change that either. So those killer daily sex-in-a-strange-place sessions get traded for scheduled sex every 10-14 days.

And everything is nice and stable, until...

That little hottie from the gym pays some extra attention to your guy. All of a sudden, those hormones get all woken-up and he thinks "hey, a female wants me!". Then, over the next two months, she starts asking him for advice in the gym. She asks for "spots"... oh... and then they grab a bit after their workout. Next, she mentions that she and her girlfriends will be running around some next Friday night and wants to know if your guy can "break free". Guess what? He can! And the rest is history...

Now, how do you break the cycle? I'm gonna get flamed here, but the answer is for the woman to BECOME that girl in the gym. Do something different... change your appearance a little... break a routine. Then, use a combination of compliments/attention/sexual behavior to get your guy chasing again. The same biological mechanism that makes guys "tired of the same old pussy" is easily fooled. An outfit (i.e. schoolgirl, prostitute, naughty nurse) often bypasses the system.

Now, if the woman says "Hey now, it's not my job to keep him interested. He has to do his part!!!!", then she'll be correct. That, however, does not change the fact that the little gym bunny is coming... in the gym, or at work, or at your son's baseball practice, or in the church choir... she's coming, so it's just a matter of time. As the woman, you'll be correct -- all the way up to and through the divorce proceedings. Now, if you'd rather be right than married, then just stay the course

 

[needtogetaas]

Marriage. And Mostly it's the women that does not want it anymore.

Is it that there tired of the man or something else?

This also goes for the Man too

most of the time things go wrong and the women starts using sex as a wepon,or something the can hold over the mans head.

 

[covergrl80]

Problem solved. Get off the drugs and most likely her sex drive will return.

But here is a question you can ask her: even though she is not interested in sex with her husband, is she still masturbating on her own? If yes, then the drugs are not to blame and there is a problem with the relationship. If no, then it is most likely the drugs.

I have never asked her if she gets her self off,however I will guess and say no.

I will be sure to pass this info on to her. A lot of things that have been said here make a great point and some of it may help her.Or maybe I can get her to open an account a read it for her self, Which may be better.

Good. Now get rid of it before I puke!

I would rather see your pansy ass puke. Just shows me how weak you are.