Why do younger girls go for older men?

[thelion2005]

I have found a number of reasons a "younger woman" is attracted to and wants to be with an "older man". And at my age ... it can really get extreme:

- She does have father issues. The taboo does not stop her.
- She has practical problems that an older man can solve today.
- He doesn't hate her children; he is comfortable with them.
- She is lonely and taken for granted. The older man sees that void and fills it.
- The older man has so much more world experience, she has no tolerance for those still learning.
- She finds being kept by a successful older man erotic ... delightfully sinful.
- He takes her places sexually that she won't go with a younger man ... domination.

 

[Bikini Mod]

- He takes her places sexually that she won't go with a younger man ... domination.

Now you would THINK this is generally the case. Of all of the men that I have been intimate with since I have split from my exhusband I have generally been the one to "influence" them.

I had one/two lovers that taught me much about how to feel about myself and how to accept a man pleasuring me as opposed to how I had always been taught to believe (and reinforced throughout my entire marriage) that I was supposed to pleasure him.

These men floored me when it was all about me - that their pleasure came from giving ME pleasure.

Once I learned to accept this (took me about 2 years to fully comprehend and accept) I have come to understand that this is the type of man I need.

I am very submissive and giving by nature so I am very drawn to a man who is the same. If his pleasure comes from mine and my pleasure comes from giving him pleasure, we will create a complete circle.

I do find that older men, in general, know how to seduce a woman properly whereas a younger man is clueless in this regard. Younger men think that it is all about how quickly they can stick it in, get off and recover.

 

[delete]

because:
i have more money and will spend it on her
i have a great car
i have more free time to travel and take her places
i have great grey-at-the-temple hair and it drives her wild!

 

[Bikini Mod]

because:
i have more money and will spend it on her
i have a great car
i have more free time to travel and take her places
i have great grey-at-the-temple hair and it drives her wild!

Ummmm forgive my ignorance, but I thought you played for the other team.

Regardless, I do agree with most of what you said, except the car thing. I honestly dont notice or care. If he has a ton of money, of course he wont be driving a Ford Focus. LOL

 

[delete]

Ummmm forgive my ignorance, but I thought you played for the other team.

Regardless, I do agree with most of what you said, except the car thing. I honestly dont notice or care. If he has a ton of money, of course he wont be driving a Ford Focus. LOL

nothing to forgive; glad to explain: i like to swing my bat for both teams! lol

 

[jenscats5]

I have found a number of reasons a "younger woman" is attracted to and wants to be with an "older man". And at my age ... it can really get extreme:

- She does have father issues. The taboo does not stop her.
- She has practical problems that an older man can solve today.
- He doesn't hate her children; he is comfortable with them.
- She is lonely and taken for granted. The older man sees that void and fills it.
- The older man has so much more world experience, she has no tolerance for those still learning.
- She finds being kept by a successful older man erotic ... delightfully sinful.
- He takes her places sexually that she won't go with a younger man ... domination.

Hmmmm...interesting........wouldn't say complete & utter domination all the time - although sometimes is fun.........BUT older men have taken me further sexually than I've ever been and I haven't gotten there yet completely.....

And ohhhh do I want to....

 

[obiwan9962]

Hmmmm...interesting........wouldn't say complete & utter domination all the time - although sometimes is fun.........BUT older men have taken me further sexually than I've ever been and I haven't gotten there yet completely.....

And ohhhh do I want to....

want some practice?

 

[jenscats5]

want some practice?

You knowwwwwww...........PMP - practice makes perfect.....

YUM!!

 

[Bikini Mod]

nothing to forgive; glad to explain: i like to swing my bat for both teams! lol

Hhhmmmmmmmmmmmm

I bet you would be AWESOME in bed.

 

[BUBBLES]

Yes, so she can do an Ana Nicole Smith on him and secretly she will be looking form someone younger and not older than 5 years her age. lol