Why do younger girls go for older men?

[thought1st]

It is a beautiful thing. 43M occasionally dating (or ???) a 29F. She was a former tenant of mine and a stripper (with a mind). Met her when she was 21. She needed an apartment and I was happy to help out. lol I was recently seperated and all she wanted was to go out, have fun and play NO GAMES. She never asked me for anything more. SHowever, I watched her hustle many men and boys who never got anywhere. She is currently engaged and we still see each other once a month or so. Go figure. That will probably last many years. Thank you Viagra.........

 

[thought1st]

It's a beautiful thing. 43M currently dating (?????) a 29F. She was a former tenant and HOT stripper. Met her when she was 21 and needed a place to stay. I was happy to help. All she wanted was to go out, have fun and play no games. She knew exactly what she did and did not want and was not afraid to say so. I watched her hustle many men and boys that never got anywhere with her except broke!!!! She never asked me for anything.

She is engaged now and we still see each other once or twice a month, go figure. It is one of those "special" relationships that will probably last forever. Thank you Viagra................ lol

 

[Bikini Mod]

because the sex in great! They take their time, not all about them, service the girl more, GREAT SEX

There is also a calm about and older man that the younger men simply do not possess.

An older established man doesnt feel the need to prove Jack Shitt to anyone. He is confident without being arrogant.

He has seen life and is more understanding of a person's difficulties... ie physical problems or other baggage.

Younger men DO NOT understand how to seduce a woman properly.

I am still learning myself and have ZERO desire to start "teaching" a man.

I was my father's favorite and had a great relationship with him until the past few years so where does that put me? I have ALWAYS dated older men (my exhusband was nearly 30 when we married. I was 22). The few younger men that I dated - bad bad BAD mistake....

The youngest I ever "dated" LOL was 24 when I was 34 (BAD BAD BAD IDEA), dated a few men that were 30ish when I was mid 30's ("eh" at best, AWFUL at worst), am now 38 and have dated as old as 64 and 66. With the exception of ONE lover (he was only 1 year my senior) MY MOST AMAZING LOVERS were the two oldest!!!

My preference is men that are early to mid 50's.

 

[awittyusername]

I can't believe no one said Money

 

[Gymgurl]

Most older men have ex-wifes and there goes the money

 

[Bikini Mod]

I can't believe no one said Money

Darlin - being with a man for his money is THE HARDEST money a woman will ever work for.

In other words - it sooooooooo isn't worth it.

 

[Gymgurl]

LOLOLOL...to much baby's momma drama....and a whole lot of other baggage mixed in

 

[Bikini Mod]

LOLOLOL...to much baby's momma drama....and a whole lot of other baggage mixed in

I agree, that is why I will only date a man if he has a good relationship with his ex if he has children.

I got a drama-causing asshole ex of my own. Dont need to contend with his as well.

 

[awittyusername]

Ladies, I am just saying money is a big reason. I have found having nice cars, bikes, homes, etc...will get girls to throw themselves at you. (even the same ones that used to snub me when I was broke) There is a huge difference.

It is instinct for women...Just like it is for a female gorilla to breed with the biggest male gorilla.

BTW. I was never married, and have no ex-wife/kid issues

 

[Megalomaniac]

So if I understand this right I should go the next 10 years without getting married. Saving money and staying fit, praticing my social skills and educating myself along the way should be my game plan. Then, at this point, young hot ladies should want me finally?