Why do younger girls go for older men?

[awittyusername]

So if I understand this right I should go the next 10 years without getting married. Saving money and staying fit, praticing my social skills and educating myself along the way should be my game plan. Then, at this point, young hot ladies should want me finally?

Brilliant.

I did the same thing for the exact same reasons!

My friends who got married are now the divorced guys with kids the ladies are talking about.

I preach this to every young guy I meet. Get it all out of your system...Then, you can play house

 

[KBEKQT]

Let's see...emotionally stable, less insecurities and mind games, better conversations, older dudes don't try to impress, they are themselves, more experienced in a lot of fields, including all the things that make you go mmmm.

I'm just not into the diaper changing thing. If I wanted to raise a child I would have one...not date one.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Ladies, I am just saying money is a big reason. I have found having nice cars, bikes, homes, etc...will get girls to throw themselves at you. (even the same ones that used to snub me when I was broke) There is a huge difference.

It is instinct for women...Just like it is for a female gorilla to breed with the biggest male gorilla.

BTW. I was never married, and have no ex-wife/kid issues

It is a given that an older man SHOULD have achieved a modicum of success.

I will only date successful men - period. Money does NOT impress me so the playing field is leveled in this regard.

A rich jerk is STILL a jerk and will get as much of my time as a poor nice guy. (I only date older men so if he is poor he cant be too smart. SMART is the first criteria. If a man can not stimulate me mentally - we dont go out - PERIOD.)

Call me what you will (I will save the trouble LOL) - this is how I am . All the men know this upfront. If they take offense we just dont go out and no one's time is wasted.

Time is my most precious commodity... NOT SEX.

Sex is not a commodity. It is a gift that is to be shared between two mutually consenting adults.

 

[obiwan9962]

Older guys rule!!

thank you

 

[Whiskey]

heheheheheehe, had a 16 y.o. ask me if I was single last week. had to tell her I was 27 and that she was too young. didn't care at all. WTF!?! still awkward at the gym

I'd figure a woman would want someone more her age, somethat that they could relate with????? Maybe i'm wrong on that one.

Who wants to be dating someone over the hill when they are only 30?

Whiskey

 

[Bikini Mod]

See, that is just it.... some women relate better to men that are older.

And as for a man being "over the hill" - that is purely a state of mind. I have seen many 20-somethings that never made it to the top but were quickly hurtling down the other side at the speed of light, nonetheless!

 

[flex229]

like it or not,,girls (women) are attracted to people in positions of power...older men often give off this type of aura to them...

and im not dissing on women,,,its more of a subconscious thing, i think..

 

[musclemom]

like it or not,,girls (women) are attracted to people in positions of power...older men often give off this type of aura to them...

and im not dissing on women,,,its more of a subconscious thing, i think..

That's true but it's a generalization, not all women go for power, and not all older men are necessarily IN positions of power.

My husband is a great example. He's just a really nice guy, average working "joe," blue collar, certainly not a mover or shaker

We were the best of friends, we fell in love ... age has never been any sort of an issue ...

 

[obiwan9962]

in general i believe people get married much too young and for the wrong reasons these days
and i ride a bus daily that goes my a centre for single moms and most of what i see get on are barely out of high school
point of that is: boys and girls if you ain't ready to be a parent keep your pants on

as for younger and older yes i am an older GENTLEMAN with a gal 8 years younger
my two ex wives were older than me....one 8 the other 9
at that age and difference in maturity levels drew a big strain as we tried to grow together
my gal and i are about the same maturity level (and i am not ashamed to admit that)
i am gentle with her as i was taught respect for women, family, nature, God and country ( i dropped the G word a few years back lol), we get along well and are friends in love and share our thoughts daily
she knows i am no good at games or Game and she is not interested in that anyway
she wants what i want and i want what she wants
age teaches you respect not just for others but yourself

i fear today's generation have little respect for themselves
now i hope i can help her teach respect of women and self to her son

 

[needtogetaas]

simple there dumb.