Sassy69
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KillahBee said:okay I lied, I will analyze it.
from my experience, it typically has to do with a) playing grown-up, b) the difference between lifestyles and stages of life with older vs younger men and (unfortunately) c) older men being better at playing younger chicks.
But on the flip side, age is really just a number. I am 26 and I was recently with a 21yo and it had nothing to do with age. We just clicked. (not that 26 vs 21 is a major age difference, but it's relatively significant)
Pretty damn insightful for a 26 yr old youngin'!
My experience - had one of the closest relationships w/a guy 13 yrs older than me - personality wise we complimented each other dramatically and some of the best & most satisfying sex I've ever had. Didn't work out - different places in life. I also dated a guy 13 yrs younger than me - great for 2 weeks, annoying as shit for the final 6 weeks. I definitely felt like the babysitter who didn't get paid. We kept in touch for a few yrs after that and he had matured dramatically and was apparently getting married. I was very happy for him because I think where I was in life helped him jump out of this really annoyingly juvenile state he was in (had just gotten kicked out of the army for smoking pot and hadnt' told his dad yet... I was just looking for some fun so we hung out). I really need someone who is at the same place in life as I am. I'm not sure age woudl matter as much as that.
If you are talking "really older" guys w/ young miss thang on his arm (or pushign his wheelchair), then its obviously a money for pussy / accessory thing. Younger girls may get off on having the "older" bf, some need the daddy figure to take care of them, and some guys need the younger girl to feel younger themselves. Lots of different reasons.